Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
Gotcha... See I think that when you are married, you become one. There isnt(or at least shouldnt be) a fight for balance of power. When I am in love, like real real love... I am very submissive within reasonable means, but I think that is just a natural response when you find someone that you want in your life, you know, to leave your wants behind and attend to theirs...

I think it has hurt relationships. I was married to a great woman, but there was always a power struggle. And that ultimately ended the relationship. I don't want a mother, I want a wife. I mean a guy wants to feel like he is the head of the household. Not very many men want to feel like they have very little say so or input into the relationship. As a man you are brought up to be the head of the house.. Not owner of that person but not their slave either. As a man it made me feel worthless, even affected my libido.

I still love this woman and miss her terribly


I might be a little off topic as well but.. just felt like venting