Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
I totally understand that it isnt easy for a man to grasp that a woman may not need him to provide for them financially I just dont understand why they feel they dont bring anything to the table. Like it just seems like they feel like I am using them and they are expendable to me. That isnt the case. If I dedicate any amount of time to ONE guy, it should be a given that I want more than their money. I have dated the guys that ask off the bat if I am only with them b/c of their money and I feel like that creates a form of competition within me. Like I have to prove that I dont want anything to do with their money, I just want them... I dunno. It just seems like I am destined to be a sugar mama....
Will you marry me? LOL j/k.

Seriously though, these days people should stop being so traditional and conservative you know. If a woman offered to pay, I wouldn't turn that down. Why? If theyre genuinely offering to pay, instead of that "make you feel bad for not paying" kind of way, why turn that down? Sigh dumbasses these days.

Thats not to say that if she offered to pay everytime I would let her.