Quote Originally Posted by tony
This is more of a response to B than it is to A, I agree with the part I bolded. It really depends on where the man is in his life. If a guy is ready to settle down and have a serious relationship, typically he'd want someone that has matured past that level. Think about it.. (and this is no knock to the original poster) but do you really think a guy that has real goals in life wants to settle down with a woman that goes to strip clubs?

And vice versa, if a man hangs out in strip clubs can he really expect a good woman to take him seriously? Of course there are exceptions and if a guy is all about fun and want someone to hang out with every so often then cool.. do whatever you do but its hard to expect someone to take things seriously at that level.

On the paying thing, to each's own. I've had plenty of women want to pay for dinner but I grab the check anyway without hesitation. Works for some guys.. others like to be catered to.
Here's the thing though. The guy is ready to settle down, has goals, is fairly successful. The girl is much the same, their both very independent, but like spending time with each other, hence being a couple. Would it be wrong if they still went to the strip club? It could be more fun for them to do that, then to maybe go to a movie or something.