Quote Originally Posted by ironchef
You're dating some scrubs I gotta say.

A) These days I don't see why it would be wrong for the people to split bills 50/50. The first couple of dates, the guy pays and thats cool. But after that, why should he always front the bill? Relationships should be about give and take and mutual reciprocation. If the chick guaruntees some dome after dinner, thats one thing. But who knows these days?

B) If you go to the strip club and can appreciate the hot strippers, and some guy finds something wrong with that, hes gotta have a few screws lose. Though I suppose if you were getting really into and serious and what not it might make a difference. But, if you're just chilling having a good time, what kind of dumbass would look down on that?
This is more of a response to B than it is to A, I agree with the part I bolded. It really depends on where the man is in his life. If a guy is ready to settle down and have a serious relationship, typically he'd want someone that has matured past that level. Think about it.. (and this is no knock to the original poster) but do you really think a guy that has real goals in life wants to settle down with a woman that goes to strip clubs?

And vice versa, if a man hangs out in strip clubs can he really expect a good woman to take him seriously? Of course there are exceptions and if a guy is all about fun and want someone to hang out with every so often then cool.. do whatever you do but its hard to expect someone to take things seriously at that level.

On the paying thing, to each's own. I've had plenty of women want to pay for dinner but I grab the check anyway without hesitation. Works for some guys.. others like to be catered to.