PS: as far as the strip club goes, I chose not to speak on it bc I don't know how "deep" it gets or how frequently you/him go. I tend to agree w/ Tony on the matter though... you lay down w/ dogs, don't be surprised when you stand up w/ fleas. I'm KING FREAK, but I don't need to be recognized by face when I walk into somebody's strip joint either. But then again, I'm more confortable w/ swinging w/ other couples than I am w/ the strip club - lol - or picking some porn up, poppin it in the DVD player w/ my lady... talkin' $100 worth if sh*t about how she about to GET IT, pop once and then falling asleep b4 round 2 ... LOL... so maybe I am not the person to ask.