Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ View Post
There's no way. If you want to get with multiple people, don't settle down. Marriage is about commitment to one person. If you want multiple partners, join/start a polygamist cult. Life is complicated enough without the added BS that comes with sex with other people. There's no viable reason for swinging if you're with someone that you're committed to. Later, QD.
i totally respect your view mike but marriage is about a lot of different things to a lot of different people. if i were to swing, i'd do it with couples who are at least a couple hours away, many of them 'probably' have kids and full lives of their own. what added BS can all of this pleasure cause? what is so complicated about life anyway??

i guess you could argue a lot of similar things on your points...but that's where individual thought comes into play; and then this moves from the lifestyle forum to the religion forum (i want this in the lifestyle, lol)

...what about a couple (not just an individual) that wants to 'have fun' but be secure with a family and some structure at the same time? what if SHE wants to?? (not saying this is the case here...i think it always needs be mutual)

we aren't talking about joining cults and polygamist groups, no weekly meetings or illegal marriages...we are talking about f'n :idb:


always like your insight QD!