Quote Originally Posted by sharo227 View Post
me and my best friend have talked about this because she was dating a guy who wanted to have another girl join them ,they broke up but before they did they had a few threesomes with a girl they knew pretty well.. now she wants to try it again but with different people and we have both said to do that with another girl or with just 1 guy would be okay but idk that i would want 2 guys just bc that would seem weird to me. my last boyfriend would get mad when i would talk about inviting a girl to join us but i wouldn't pick up some girl i didn't know.. but then again he is an ex for a reason (not that reason). i think it really depends on how comfortable you and your partner are with each other and you have to know that after doing that they wont go out and cheat on you, they would only have those kinda relations when you were there and down with it.. thats my take on it for now at least lol
None of that made any sense at all.

Quote Originally Posted by bodhi View Post
personally I don't see much harm in swinging
if both of the parties agree to following through then i see no problem.

it's not considered "cheating" at all, especially, like I said, if they both "agree."


not everyone is the same though, so some ppl are going to feel differently about this, but shouldn't.... a commitment is to be used as you and your wife/husband wish. it could be twisted, traditional, or whatever. there aren't any laws that say how to live a commited life with your partner
BF/GF, maybe I still wouldn't do it).

If you're married, there is ZERO room for this. Later, QD.