swinging

[sharo227]

me and my best friend have talked about this because she was dating a guy who wanted to have another girl join them ,they broke up but before they did they had a few threesomes with a girl they knew pretty well.. now she wants to try it again but with different people and we have both said to do that with another girl or with just 1 guy would be okay but idk that i would want 2 guys just bc that would seem weird to me. my last boyfriend would get mad when i would talk about inviting a girl to join us but i wouldn't pick up some girl i didn't know.. but then again he is an ex for a reason (not that reason). i think it really depends on how comfortable you and your partner are with each other and you have to know that after doing that they wont go out and cheat on you, they would only have those kinda relations when you were there and down with it.. thats my take on it for now at least lol

[quickdodge®]

me and my best friend have talked about this because she was dating a guy who wanted to have another girl join them ,they broke up but before they did they had a few threesomes with a girl they knew pretty well.. now she wants to try it again but with different people and we have both said to do that with another girl or with just 1 guy would be okay but idk that i would want 2 guys just bc that would seem weird to me. my last boyfriend would get mad when i would talk about inviting a girl to join us but i wouldn't pick up some girl i didn't know.. but then again he is an ex for a reason (not that reason). i think it really depends on how comfortable you and your partner are with each other and you have to know that after doing that they wont go out and cheat on you, they would only have those kinda relations when you were there and down with it.. thats my take on it for now at least lol

None of that made any sense at all.

personally I don't see much harm in swinging
if both of the parties agree to following through then i see no problem.

it's not considered "cheating" at all, especially, like I said, if they both "agree."


not everyone is the same though, so some ppl are going to feel differently about this, but shouldn't.... a commitment is to be used as you and your wife/husband wish. it could be twisted, traditional, or whatever. there aren't any laws that say how to live a commited life with your partner

BF/GF, maybe I still wouldn't do it).

If you're married, there is ZERO room for this. Later, QD.

[bodhi]

If you're married, there is ZERO room for this. Later, QD.

and thats your opinion

other ppl might not see it your way, and thats perfectly normal too.

[sharo227]

None of that made any sense at all.

lol where am i getting confusing at? lol i guess i just have a different view at this then you which of course is fine but maybe i can explain how i see it a little better if you can tell me where it isnt making any sense lol

[bodhi]

lol where am i getting confusing at? lol i guess i just have a different view at this then you which of course is fine but maybe i can explain how i see it a little better if you can tell me where it isnt making any sense lol

start with working on your sentence structure

i type fucked up, but i do it on purpose

[sharo227]

start with working on your sentence structure

i type fucked up, but i do it on purpose

sorry!!

[chuck]

If you're married, there is ZERO room for this. Later, QD.

it really is a personal choice...i totally understand the sanctity of marriage idea but obviously do not agree %100. some people truly believe that when they are excessively pleased (have good sex) that god is pleased...some see this as blasphemous...but then again, some may see something like ghost hunting to be blasphemous...all goes back to that point of view. ya feel me now?

certainly not trying to convert anyone here, just want everyone (me included) to feel they are getting their full points across.

you know i got some dusty, old, mad respect for you QD!