personally I don't see much harm in swinging
if both of the parties agree to following through then i see no problem.

it's not considered "cheating" at all, especially, like I said, if they both "agree."


not everyone is the same though, so some ppl are going to feel differently about this, but shouldn't.... a commitment is to be used as you and your wife/husband wish. it could be twisted, traditional, or whatever. there aren't any laws that say how to live a commited life with your partner