Need some insight on something

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If it doesn't affect you personally than you have no place to chime in.

Sure you do. Would you want to go through a relationship where the other was cheating and you had a chance to know about it but didn't because the one that knew just "minded their business?" Not me.

I say that coming out of a two year relationship that was ruined by little shit like that (not on my behalf).

Again, I say, try that with a marriage. Where the stakes are a lot higher. Boyfriend/girlfriend relationships are not like marriages. There is a lot more involved. Add children in the mix and there is an even higher plane. I also find it kind of weird to believe that you'd rather carry on a relationship with a girl that's cheating on you than to have some "little shit" save you a lot of wasted time. I'd damn near be wanting to go out with that dude just to thank him.

The girl I'm with now has a boyfriend and os well aware of what she and I do. He lives several hours away and that's somethings they're open to. Who is to say that said cheater that was originally posted about is actually cheating. It could just be another partner that he has strictly for that purpose and his wife knows about it. That lifestyle is quire common, however, it's looked down upon by many.

You're right, but better safe than sorry. If I'm telling someone his/her other is cheating, I'd rather be told that theirs is an open relationship than to not say anything at all and it be a traditional one.

Again, and I can't stress on this, marriage is a whole different ballgame. Believe me, I know. Later, QD.