It all boils down to this... the man is a complete idiot for going around bragging that he's banging someone other than his wife. Cheating isn't something a person should brag about. He's probably also chicken shit to tell his wife because she'll probably castrate his ass. Just speaking in my opinion. I've been cheated on and the man still has yet to man up to it. Causes fighting and arguments. And disrespects the person getting hurt in the end. Makes that person find it Very hard to trust someone again. Or better yet, forgive and trust the person who cheated.