If you can't be honest to the ONE person on this planet that you CLAIM you love and respect the most, then what light does that shed on your to your circle. Personally, I try to keep my nose out of it to a point. But, dont expect me to automatically keep my mouth shut and be a liar, to cover ones infidelity. Not saying something over and over again is the same as lying. Honesty can be brutal sometimes, but always respected in the end.