Need some insight on something

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You can be devoted to someone and make a mistake. Let's say you've been married 10-15 years and you're 100% in love with your wife and want to be with her forever, but in a moment of weakness you cheat with someone else. You immediately realize it was a mistake and know that you will never do it again. It had nothing to do with your emotional attachment to your wife, it was strictly physical.

Still wrong and still cheating. In a marriage, there is no such thing as "mistake sex." When you have sex with someone outside of the marriage, you put yourself in that position. When you're trustworthy and 100% loyal, you don't make that kind of mistake. Period.

also, it's up to the individual how important monogamy is to their relationship. Not everyone thinks of sex as this soul binding bond between two people who were meant to spend their lives together.

You're right and if they don't mind that lifestyle, then they won't mind being told and they'll let you know that that's the type of relationship they have.

I'm not sure what you mean...... sex can certainly happen on an impulse decision, its not always a premeditated act of "unfaithfulness".

You're right here, as well. BUT, you put yourself in that position and you have a weak mind, then you make a mistake that you shouldn't have. It's all about putting yourself in that position.

I feel like i'm on punked or something.... like you people are intentionally messing with me. There's no way my stance on this is THIS different from everyone else. I dont feel this out of touch in church.

You have your thoughts on this. Everyone thinks differently on topics. And again, please don't take this as insult to you or your intelligence as I'm certainly not out to do that, but it's hard for me to see your reasoning because your not married and, if I remember correctly, never have been. You're not much into long relationships so your views will be different.

Just to add, I don't mind the conversation with you, regardless, dude.

True story

Not quite. You're completely wrong from the get go so your post is moot, lolol.

The other guy trusted him showing him the pics.....

but I know for a fact me and others would lose respect for the guy who told the girl ...

Your post is kind of moot, too. How can you use the words "trust" and "respect" in a positive way towards a cheater? My guess is you're not married, either. Later, QD.