Need some insight on something

[quickdodge®]

Being someone on the receiving end of news of infidelity, I'll have to side with you, Bacon. My first wife was unfaithful to me and my best friends found out and came straight to me with it. That was the end of it. I would hate to think that someone is carrying on with their life not knowing that something of that nature was going on behind his/her back. That's disgusting and unsafe. If that was a true family, then the dude would not be messing around with another. A family involves husband and wife and children. Not a husband, wife, children and other females. If this dude was intent on having his family remain intact, he would do one of two things: not tell anyone of his indiscretions or not do it in the first place. If his child is in the forefront of his mind, one, he wouldn't be messing with his family and two, if this causes a family break up, then he will still be in that child's life regardless.

Bottom line is is that he needed to be "ratted out." If he didn't want to be caught, he should've kept to himself. Later, QD.

[Sinfix_15]

Being someone on the receiving end of news of infidelity, I'll have to side with you, Bacon. My first wife was unfaithful to me and my best friends found out and came straight to me with it. That was the end of it. I would hate to think that someone is carrying on with their life not knowing that something of that nature was going on behind his/her back. That's disgusting and unsafe. If that was a true family, then the dude would not be messing around with another. A family involves husband and wife and children. Not a husband, wife, children and other females. If this dude was intent on having his family remain intact, he would do one of two things: not tell anyone of his indiscretions or not do it in the first place. If his child is in the forefront of his mind, one, he wouldn't be messing with his family and two, if this causes a family break up, then he will still be in that child's life regardless.

Bottom line is is that he needed to be "ratted out." If he didn't want to be caught, he should've kept to himself. Later, QD.

Friends and acquaintances have a different set of rules. If me and you were long time friends and your girl cheated on you, i would tell you. If me and a girl were long time friends and some random guy cheated on her, i would tell her.

If one of my co-workers told my wife i was cheating on her. I would probably beat him half to death. If one of my wife's legitimate friends found out i was cheating and told her, i wouldnt be mad at them. If one of my friends told on me, they would catch a beating also.

[Squirrley]

Being someone on the receiving end of news of infidelity, I'll have to side with you, Bacon. My first wife was unfaithful to me and my best friends found out and came straight to me with it. That was the end of it. I would hate to think that someone is carrying on with their life not knowing that something of that nature was going on behind his/her back. That's disgusting and unsafe. If that was a true family, then the dude would not be messing around with another. A family involves husband and wife and children. Not a husband, wife, children and other females. If this dude was intent on having his family remain intact, he would do one of two things: not tell anyone of his indiscretions or not do it in the first place. If his child is in the forefront of his mind, one, he wouldn't be messing with his family and two, if this causes a family break up, then he will still be in that child's life regardless.

Bottom line is is that he needed to be "ratted out." If he didn't want to be caught, he should've kept to himself. Later, QD.

amen..