"That's true, but it's not an easy decision to make when you've got someone that depends on you. When I even just mentioned it last night she broke down. I can't even imagine what would happen if I actually told her we were through and it kills me to think about it."

I understand. It would be a very hard thing to do, but like people have said, she probably can understand deep down, but it would be real hard and confusing for her more then likely. Tough situation.