Quote Originally Posted by WhiteAccord
But to break up with someone your with just so you can be happy... is somwhat selfish...
That's a crock of ****. If you're not happy, then, eventually, you're going to cause your SO to be not happy as well. You would be doing yourself and the SO a disservice if you stayed together. Let the SO go and find someone that is happy and you go and find someone or do whatever it is you need to do to find your happiness. It's not fair at all to keep a person with you when you're not happy.

Ran, that wasn't to you as in what you should do. It was just a general statement about the above quote. Just do what you feel you need to do to get yourself in order and follow your heart. Later, QD.