How do I get over a girl hat I still love? To sum it all up we dated for nearly 3 years and I loved her and out of no where she jus breaks it off with me. So my question is? How do I get over her. She is about to date one of my (ex) friends and how do I deal with the fact that my friend that has been around me and her for the longest time, and is about to be getting a peice of the action? It hurts because I still love her and have feeling for her but she want to be with some one else. How do I deal with the fact that I will be seeing her with another guy?