And on top of all this, she was my best friend before all this went down. And the guy she is trying to date is MY exboyfriend. And she lied to me about liking him, being around him, and talking to him when she promised me she would never lied to me. Anyways, the guy and i have been fighting for the past few weeks. so she decided to talk to him on the phone when i didn't want to. so i told her, i don't want to hang around her until she dumps him, because i will slap the shit out of him.