Quote Originally Posted by silver
This is where I have learned alot from. And this is just me.. but its like if you can't trust someone or decide to trust them you are only going to convince yourself that there is something not to trust.. if that makes sense..

Its hard to say either trust someone or dont, cause people get screwed over and make it hard for people to move on and trust others... but then again why penalize someone for something someone else did in the past to make you have trust issues. Everyone is going to get burned, but you have to remember that you are picking the people that you give your trust to from the get go.

The guy I am dating now.. its been about 6 mths now. He has never given me any doubt in my mind a reason to not trust him. He has even gotten the phone calls from girls he dated years ago.. and its come a long way for me to do this but I trust him 110% or I would not even be wasting my time in the raltionship.. But that is a chance that I have taken to see if someone values my trust. Yeah it sucks to be burned but when you find a person that you can trust and also can trust you it makes it worth it and is just that much better.
dont blind yourself....alot of women do that

there is one thing of not trusting someone and there is a nother when you see what is going to happen before it actually goes down. like you see the outcome before it happens.

its happen to me b4 and i deaded the relationship cause i knew what was gonna happen over time. and it did. some pple choose to wait it out and others dont.

as far as the number thing i dont know what i would do. i assume i would ask. but its almost whats the point. if they cheat they cheat. id have to sit back and watch first before i ask. i dont want to say something and look like worry wort and im wrong. but then again it depends how things were between us