I would call it anticipated cheating.
I would call it anticipated cheating.
Originally Posted by LiL PaKi
yea but the main thing is its still cheating almost. i dunno...so lets change it up a little bit. what if they said it was this person they met somewhere. not work related just someone they met of the opposit sex. would you allow that or fell comfortable with that?
see women know their man....and what i mean by this men would never understand. thats why women would trip the way they do cuz they know he can be.....and vice versa for men but they dont look into it like they do cuz men are stuck on how women are devoted to their men. which in most cases are true.
false to a pointOriginally Posted by Tasuki_Civic
i let it go for a while, but i started doing my own investigations, my own undercover operation to see what was going on. some women are faithful some are grimy.
it's probably the same percentage of men as women who cheat and aren't devoted.
i agreeOriginally Posted by Tasuki_Civic
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If it's only 6 mos, then you have to decide if yall are really all that serious. If you are, then you just come out and ask "what's the deal?". If it's innocent, he will have a good logical reason for having someone else's phone numbers. If it's not, he'll fall all over his tongue trying to anticipate a good answer.
You have to also remember that sometimes people have phone numbers for a good and valid reason. I had, until my phone died, over 500 contacts and phone numbers. Was I screwing around with all of them? Of course not, but if go out by myself and suddenly she finds phone numbers in my pockets.....I got some explaining to do for real. So would she if the shoe was on the other foot.
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