Imagine this: Some dude owns a house in a neighborhood with an HOA. He refuses to cut his grass and people complain that it's ugly and hurting the appearance of the whole street. He responds by saying, "If it bothers you so much, don't look at my house."
That's what you're doing.
Typing in all caps is still disrespectful and makes you look like a moron... so I have a better idea. If the fact that I'm calling you out on it all the time bothers you, STOP POSTING IN ALL CAPS.