I read some of this, not all of it so excuse me if i repost.

I personally dont like the idea of being a sinlge parent bc that the way I was raised (dad died on the job when i was 6) and I saw how rough it was on my mom. I love the idea of an independent woman but only if she has to. For instant if the guy who got the woman pregnant is a piece os shit or if he dies or whatever. But to just choose to be a single parent puzzles me. Me and Tasuki had several conversions about this and I didnt the idea then and I dont like it now for the simple reason that its hard raising a kid and doing all the work alone is alot for 2 ppl let alone one. I understand that u have family to help and all but its still good to have the other half to help out IMO.

I dont like the idea of good woman being alone or abandoned by humans with sperm and left with the duty of raising a kid alone. Slowly, from what I know of u so far, id classify you as a good woman and should be treated well. Therefore you shouldnt have to worry about putting up with ne abnormal relationship shit from a dude, but it happens. I can go on forever on this so ill end it now.