Quote Originally Posted by tony
Okay I hate to harp on this but he is making dumb ass excuses. Regardless of her being a good mother or not if she is an adult then she can handle the child.

Him picking her up from Amtrak: Bullshit

Him saying he wants to be there so the baby can transition: Bullshit

Him not calling you: Bullshit

Him not filing for custody: Bullshit

See a pattern here? Sounds like he's full of shit. It would be better to file for custody now when the child doesn't understand than to cause the confusion when she is 5 or 6. I've been in both situations, the child and the parent. He needs to cut communication/interraction with the mother on any level other than the child.
Once again... I know. Just like deep down inside I know he still loves her. She cheated on him not him on her so he was the one that got shunned... HE stayed in NY for an additional 2 months trying to make things work between them, but she never came home. Being that he didnt have any family there and only moved there for her, he brought himself and his son back to GA. He came back June of 2006 and this is her first time even trying to visit. I hope and pray that he makes the right decisions these next couple of days. I can only hope. I refuse to be one of those overly dramatic chicks that starts shit with the baby's mom just b/c she was there before me...I see it as she had her shot and messed up. Now is my shot and I hope he doesnt mess up b/c I am not willing to let him go and he is too great for me to even think of messing it up.