Quote Originally Posted by tony
If he has made you a part of his life and his childs life it is definitely your place. Him introducing you to his daughter is a HUGE step in saying he is serious. In the beginning of the relationship you have to let it be known otherwise you are enabling him to do whatever he wants. He's not giving you the respect you deserve and it sounds like you are giving him way too much respect. Not sure why this issue hits me hard but most of the time its hard to find women who are understanding of the situation.. I guess what gets me is you understand and he is taking advantage of that.
See that is the thing, in the beginning, he would make plans with me and sometimes cancel and he never gave me a reason why. We finally sat down one day and I asked him why plans change so much with him. He told me that because he relies so heavily on his family watching his son, sometimes he feels bad asking, so he rather cancel his plans and stay home with him. He said he didnt want to bring him along because he felt like it would be a burden on me. I thought that was crazy, and after that made sure to include his son in any plans that we had, I mean sure we still have our time...But that is his son!!!!

I dont want to think that he is taking advantage because for the most part he did let me know first...He gave me the ability to state my feelings but I held back because I knew that her coming down was burden enough on him I didnt want him worried about me too. He dis call and text and stop by yesterday but today...Not one text. Nothing. I can only hope right?