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    Ok quick synopsis...

    I have been seeing this guy for going on to 6months now. Has a son that I love dearly and lives here in GA the mom lives in NY. The mom gave full custody to the father (not legally) so the dad moved to GA. Mom rarely calls...Well never. The dad received a phone call last night letting him know that the mom is coming to GA for a week and arrives in Atlanta at 8am tomorrow.

    WTF!?!?!?!? I have never met her and have never had to deal with this...It irritates the hell outta me that she is going to come into town when she wants to and completely fuck up any plans that I have made with the dad. She claims that she is just coming to visit the son, but why now after he has been here since June of last year? And why after she called the dad on Sunday to ask if there was a chance that they could get back together and he said no?

    Best part- They will be sleeping in the same room at his parents house...He is supposed to sleep in his brothers bed while she sleeps with their son in his bed...They are so gonna fuck... I hate feeling insecure and shit but I have all these fucked up emotions going thru me...AAAAAaaaghhhhh!!!

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    tell him what you feel. tell him you won't tolerate her staying there, tell him to tell her to get a room

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    Quote Originally Posted by william_jeff
    tell him what you feel. tell him you won't tolerate her staying there, tell him to tell her to get a room
    She cant afford it...And his family wouldnt let her do that. They are wayyyyyyy too caring. They just found out that the reason he left NY was b/c she cheated. When I say just...I mean like this morning at 10. She comes tomorrow at 8am.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
    She cant afford it...And his family wouldnt let her do that. They are wayyyyyyy too caring. They just found out that the reason he left NY was b/c she cheated. When I say just...I mean like this morning at 10. She comes tomorrow at 8am.
    tell him to stay with you then.

    i wouldnt have it point blank, thats some BS.

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    Quote Originally Posted by william_jeff
    tell him to stay with you then.

    i wouldnt have it point blank, thats some BS.
    Well he works at UPS from 11pm to 4am...Has class on Tues and Thurs from 5 until 8pm... During the day they wont be alone b/c his mom stays home...He boxes Mon, Wed, and Fri 5pm to 7pm....

    I just dont want them in the same room even though they will be on diff schedules. I just have this feeling I cant get rid of. Like... dunno. I just feel ill.

    HE told me not to worry he will probably be at my house every night after I get off work, which is perfectly fine for me...I just didnt think that I would be this insecure for someone that I am not in a commited relationship to. I do have to admit I love how he told me before he told his family and how he caleld me to talk about it to make sure I was ok...But I am not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
    Well he works at UPS from 11pm to 4am...Has class on Tues and Thurs from 5 until 8pm... During the day they wont be alone b/c his mom stays home...He boxes Mon, Wed, and Fri 5pm to 7pm....

    I just dont want them in the same room even though they will be on diff schedules. I just have this feeling I cant get rid of. Like... dunno. I just feel ill.

    HE told me not to worry he will probably be at my house every night after I get off work, which is perfectly fine for me...I just didnt think that I would be this insecure for someone that I am not in a commited relationship to. I do have to admit I love how he told me before he told his family and how he caleld me to talk about it to make sure I was ok...But I am not.
    call him and tell him how you feel, keeping that shit to yourself will only cause you to go crazy inside. he should take what you feel seriously if not, then..------------->

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    if shes the mother of the child you have no place saying wether she can or cant see the kid.... if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... like why would you e insecure if u knew he trully cared about you... look at it this way this will either break you guys or bring yall closer... let the events take place sit back and see what happens if he fucks her than why waste your time with him.. if he doesnt than maybe you can lay your insecuriies to rest....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hektik
    if shes the mother of the child you have no place saying wether she can or cant see the kid.... if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... like why would you e insecure if u knew he trully cared about you... look at it this way this will either break you guys or bring yall closer... let the events take place sit back and see what happens if he fucks her than why waste your time with him.. if he doesnt than maybe you can lay your insecuriies to rest....
    I know where my insecurities lay...We are each other's rebound..But we are taking everything really really really slow....So that we dont end up hurt like we were previously. For the most part I been fine with that, but with her coming..now I worry.

    About her being the mom, I totally understand that. I was always upset that she wasnt taking a stand up roll in her son's life...But I at least expected her to give some fair warning not just to me but him and his family.

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    Im with him it isnt your place saying wether she can or cant see the son.if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... (maybe your not ready for a relationship like this?) If he cares for you wether he loves you or likes you then youll know when she arrives. Itll show when shes there and how he treats you while shes in the presence. Also dont think negative that there going to fuck bc that right there says alot. Think positive and sit back and watch the show. Also when she called and sked him if they can get back together he said no right. Well be carefull though she might try something(you know how girls are since your one lol no seriously just watch her.) Make her relize what she lost.



    Quote Originally Posted by Hektik
    if shes the mother of the child you have no place saying wether she can or cant see the kid.... if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... like why would you e insecure if u knew he trully cared about you... look at it this way this will either break you guys or bring yall closer... let the events take place sit back and see what happens if he fucks her than why waste your time with him.. if he doesnt than maybe you can lay your insecuriies to rest....

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    Quote Originally Posted by GSRteg
    Im with him it isnt your place saying wether she can or cant see the son.if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... (maybe your not ready for a relationship like this?) If he cares for you wether he loves you or likes you then youll know when she arrives. Itll show when shes there and how he treats you while shes in the presence. Also dont think negative that there going to fuck bc that right there says alot. Think positive and sit back and watch the show. Also when she called and sked him if they can get back together he said no right. Well be carefull though she might try something(you know how girls are since your one lol no seriously just watch her.) Make her relize what she lost.
    That was my exact worry...

    What I love is (I know this is bad) but he is really sick so he has been sleeping in a seperate room in hopes of not getting his son or her sick...He just waits on the son to fall asleep then places him in bed with his mom and leaves for work. When he comes home at 4am he just stays in the living room on the couch.

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    Well see right there that shows alot if he calls you more than often. He's showing that he favors you instead of his ex or whatever she is. Its all going to work out girl just you wait.

    Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
    That was my exact worry...

    What I love is (I know this is bad) but he is really sick so he has been sleeping in a seperate room in hopes of not getting his son or her sick...He just waits on the son to fall asleep then places him in bed with his mom and leaves for work. When he comes home at 4am he just stays in the living room on the couch.

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    realistically she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing....but if hes stupid enough to return to the same person who cheated on him then you dont need him....
    prepare for the worst, hope for the best, and wish for something better......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hektik
    realistically she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing....but if hes stupid enough to return to the same person who cheated on him then you dont need him....
    prepare for the worst, hope for the best, and wish for something better......
    It is gonna be a long week.... Yeah I know ur right. He is tryin to comfort me in knowing that he wont return to her, but I have gotten so close to him and his son. We spend hours on the weekend pillow fighting and going out to do things with his son. I always make sure to include him...

    About two weeks ago we went to Augusta and were at a playground when I heard a little girl tell his son to ask his mom for permission. He was so confused at what a "mom" was that he just looked at her and kept going forward...I picked him up and went to another playground and started crying cuz I realized that most people grow up not knowing their dads, this poor 2yr old doesnt know what a "mom" is...

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    That wouldn't fly right with me either. I'd definietly be sick to my stomach. But I'm also very insecure. It will for sure make or break ya'll. I can't believe his parents are thinking about you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelly
    That wouldn't fly right with me either. I'd definietly be sick to my stomach. But I'm also very insecure. It will for sure make or break ya'll. I can't believe his parents are thinking about you.
    Yeah, cant eat...Slept from 4:30-5:15am...And she gets here tomorrow...

    Blah...Make or break right?

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    That's right. Though I've never been in that situation I know that feeling and it's horrible. Can he not stay with you at night?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kelly
    That's right. Though I've never been in that situation I know that feeling and it's horrible. Can he not stay with you at night?
    Well he works from 11pm to 4am. So his "night" is when I am at work the next mornng.

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    I wouldnt be cool with them in the same room especially if she is pusing they rekindle the flame. He may not want to do that, but the baby mama could be a sexual arson. If he fights temptation, then he sincerely cares about you. I'd let it play out and see what comes of it. Time for him to prove himself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS
    I wouldnt be cool with them in the same room especially if she is pusing they rekindle the flame. He may not want to do that, but the baby mama could be a sexual arson. If he fights temptation, then he sincerely cares about you. I'd let it play out and see what comes of it. Time for him to prove himself.
    and females are more sexual beast then men real talk. not to mention she could technically get away with rape.

    tell him what you feel slowlybtngu, and see what his reaction is. IMO suggest he stay with you since 'she doesnt have money'

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    Quote Originally Posted by william_jeff
    and females are more sexual beast then men real talk. not to mention she could technically get away with rape.

    tell him what you feel slowlybtngu, and see what his reaction is. IMO suggest he stay with you since 'she doesnt have money'
    Lol...I would hope that he sticks around for more than my money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
    Lol...I would hope that he sticks around for more than my money.
    hahaha naw im talking about her, since she's broke and cant get a hotel room. IMO thats her excuse to stay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS
    I wouldnt be cool with them in the same room especially if she is pusing they rekindle the flame. He may not want to do that, but the baby mama could be a sexual arson. If he fights temptation, then he sincerely cares about you. I'd let it play out and see what comes of it. Time for him to prove himself.
    I know everyone is right, about me just needing to sit back but damn....This shit blows.

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    It will be alright. You HAVE to eat and sleep or it will just end up making things worse. If something happen then it wasnt meant to be. I think it will all be ok though

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    Quote Originally Posted by gottraction?
    It will be alright. You HAVE to eat and sleep or it will just end up making things worse. If something happen then it wasnt meant to be. I think it will all be ok though
    I am trying, it just isnt working right now. I have really bad nerves.

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    That is what I was thinking too....

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    get a knife and go to work...

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    I'll pass on the violence. I have never met her and he has never said anything bad about her, even though she cheated.

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    Hey if he does you wrong let me know. I'll go to work on him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PSINXS
    Hey if he does you wrong let me know. I'll go to work on him.
    Aww babe. It isnt a matter of him doing me wrong...I dont want him to settle for someone that didnt appreciate him the first time around.

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    Don't worry....chill out and do something to get your mind off of it. He's been hurt in past relationships, I'm sure he wouldn't turn around and do the same thing to you, when he knows how it feels to be hurt. It's all in his hands now, so you just got to trust him. Once you saw he had a kid, you should have started to prepare yourself for the mom. Even tho your not the mom, you treat the kid better than she does, she hasn't seen the kid since last June!!! She is worth nothing. Hopefully your boyfriend has already gotten over her in the 6 months he's been with you. Don't worry, just trust him....this well definately make your relationship stronger!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizbiz101
    Don't worry....chill out and do something to get your mind off of it. He's been hurt in past relationships, I'm sure he wouldn't turn around and do the same thing to you, when he knows how it feels to be hurt. It's all in his hands now, so you just got to trust him. Once you saw he had a kid, you should have started to prepare yourself for the mom. Even tho your not the mom, you treat the kid better than she does, she hasn't seen the kid since last June!!! She is worth nothing. Hopefully your boyfriend has already gotten over her in the 6 months he's been with you. Don't worry, just trust him....this well definately make your relationship stronger!!!
    Thank you...I hope he realizes waht you say...and yes.. I am very much so attached to his son. I wish I hadnt allowed it... Especially b/c he isnt mine.

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    have you offered him to bunk at your place while she's here

    sorry Jose, but your statement: "They are so gonna fuck!" cracked me up

    Baby Momma Drama FTL.......

    Be strong Jose, be strong

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    Smile, don't worry, be happy, haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by con
    have you offered him to bunk at your place while she's here

    sorry Jose, but your statement: "They are so gonna fuck!" cracked me up

    Baby Momma Drama FTL.......

    Be strong Jose, be strong
    Lol... I am dead serious. I am not his girlfriend so he can charge it to the game...I am just the girl he is dating...whatever the hell that means. I am gonna try babe...I am gonna try.

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    yeah no matter what he says to try and make you feel better, you are still going to be anxious and nervous about the whole ordeal. and nothing is going to help you until she goes back to NY. you are just going to have to wait it out and try and spend as much time with him as you can while she is visiting.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PRiMAdonna
    yeah no matter what he says to try and make you feel better, you are still going to be anxious and nervous about the whole ordeal. and nothing is going to help you until she goes back to NY. you are just going to have to wait it out and try and spend as much time with him as you can while she is visiting.
    Yeah, I know...Man it sucks though. I want to fast forward this next week. He says he is gonna be over a lot, which I guess is comforting...But he is such a caring person he wont leave her without a car...I would...In a heart beat!

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    three some?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wurm
    three some?
    Nah, she isnt my type. Thanks though. I prefer girls with ass..

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    Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
    Nah, she isnt my type. Thanks though. I prefer girls with ass..
    i have a candidate

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