Quote Originally Posted by Hektik
if shes the mother of the child you have no place saying wether she can or cant see the kid.... if youre insecure about the situation then maybe there is something more important that u need to worry about... like why would you e insecure if u knew he trully cared about you... look at it this way this will either break you guys or bring yall closer... let the events take place sit back and see what happens if he fucks her than why waste your time with him.. if he doesnt than maybe you can lay your insecuriies to rest....
I know where my insecurities lay...We are each other's rebound..But we are taking everything really really really slow....So that we dont end up hurt like we were previously. For the most part I been fine with that, but with her coming..now I worry.

About her being the mom, I totally understand that. I was always upset that she wasnt taking a stand up roll in her son's life...But I at least expected her to give some fair warning not just to me but him and his family.