alot of people say you can't plan everything; but you can certainly try to. before we have kids i want us to enjoy our time together; there is actually a new trend w/ people having kids later b/c careers are more important now then ever. we don't live in a society where most mom's stay at home w/ the kids. most familys require 2 incomes. furthermore i want to provide my children with every opportunity possible and give them the things my parents couldn't give me when i was younger.

beyond all of that when i have kids i want to have kids to revolve my life around them; right now is not the time for that i'm too selfish.