I do not like southern women...

[AWD OWNZ U]

but ya definately got to enjoy the time while you have it... its a pet peeve of mine to enjoy life before being completely tied down. i hate when i hear people try to tell me how they are going to do all of the shit once they are old and the kids are grown... i'm like WHAT IF.. you don't get to that point?

Hell yes. I couldn't imagine having kids at my age. Let alone the people who do it in their teens. It's gotta be tough. I intend to enjoy myself while I'm young and leave the settling down until later. I certainly wouldn't mind be married as long as my wife has the same passion for life as I do. There is no reason a marriage has to mean becoming a stereotypical picket fence family to me. You and your wife sound like you have the right attitude man.

The two girls I know that want to be just moms live in Minnesota and Maryland. I used to live in the midwest... eeek!

Well that explains it, haha. I did my bachelors at Michigan. You see a lot of the same stuff, except the women are less hot. lol At least at a prominent school like Michigan you will get a reasonable pool of motivated women. It's hard just to find a girl at all at GA Tech.

All I'm saying is that some people's choices and wants may not make any sense to me... but that's fine cause it's not my life.

I agree that people usually look for those that are like them, for the most part. Most smart men aren't going to end up with some witless girl with no ambition.

It wasn't really meant to be a condemnation of the attitude. If that is what is going to make you happy in life, then by all means. I just wonder sometimes if they are truely going to be happy when it happens, or how they will cope if it doesn't. It's rough to have your life goal be something that is largely dependent on other people. I dunno if I could give up that much control over my happiness. I think it's a cultural difference. It just sucks for me. lol

That's okay... we don't like you either.

I was wondering who would be the first to say it. I figured it would be one of the girls I've gone out with not one of the ones I've never met! haha