Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
I'm so tired of arguing this. If my friend wants to go for my ex, so be it. I may not like it, but am I gonna try and stop it? Absolutely not.
Seems you missed the whole boat on this one.

The point here is not weather or not he can "stop it" from happening. The point is weather or not someone should do it in the first place.

Nobody can "stop" anything from happening. What's he gonna do?...Kill them both? That's the only way to "stop it". But much like even YOU admit, it doesn't feel good. Why not? I thought it was "fair game" when you let it go? Why would it bother you if that was really true?

Like I said, when it happens to you, then come talk about how calm and cool you're with it. I know I wouldn't be at all, so I wouldn't do it to any of my friends. It's real easy for anyone to say that they'd be cool about it, until it happens for real to them. Very few people could forecast like that.