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    If you're not dating her then she's fair game. Let other people make their own mistakes.

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    Only read first page.
    Ex-girlfriend : it doesn't matter
    Ex-wife : depends on situation
    personally I wouldn't mess with either, theirs plenty other girls out there to bring myself some drama over pussy

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    I've always stayed clear of friends Ex's...the drama it brings and the way it can split up groups of friends isn't worth it to me. Some of my friends have done it and made it work...while others havent.

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    50- 90% of IA members are Trashbags man.

    Anything other than NO is TOTALLY unacceptable.

    You guys who voted anything other that 'no' have 'no' integrity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kevykev View Post
    Anything other than NO is TOTALLY unacceptable.

    You guys who voted anything other that 'no' have 'no' integrity.
    QFT

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    REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.
    lolol it's whatever. Different people think different things.

    PS: It's ROXIE not ROXY

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    REPS! for people that see my veiw; sorry roxy lol I see your point.. but still.




    you called her Roxy, she's going to kick your ass!






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    Definitely a no from me.

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    It really depends what kind of friend you are talking about. If its someone really close to you, you don't do that shit period. No exception.

    If its some friend you don't kick it with, your just neutral with, then i think its ok. But still, there will be awkwardness.
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    If you just randomly fucked some girl a couple times, then she is a skank anyways, and she would be fair game. Serious relationship ex's are off limits to friends in my book. If one of my friends fucked my ex, which they couldn't anyways, then I would probably burn their house down. Just saying.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    What do the people of IA think? Is it ok to date a friend's ex? given this situation, You been with this girl for a couple of months and whatnot but the realationship was getting serious but things came up.. [living in another state, money, and blah blah.] So of course you being into this girl you talked about her.. a lot. So now that you two are not together your buddy that knows everything about her CAUSE of you is making moves on her but is denieding the actuations... but clearly he does it in front of your face.

    this is what I got from him " situational consequences and correlating various relationships. weighing the situation and attempting to find a happy medium. sorting things out in my head in other words."

    Poll coming just wait

    lol, you're getting your panties in a wad over a girl you can't be with?

    i applaud your buddy for banging this chick, we all know it has happened, because she is fair game. you aren't the boss of her, you aren't the boss of your buddy, fuck you and send me videos of your buddy beating that shit to death while you're stuck in another state whining on an internet forum about some throw away chick when you should really be trying to find a bitch to be banging yourself...

    stop bitching, get the fuck off the internet, and go fuck some hoes
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    I got five on it, that if this guy ever does meet Evil Goat he shits his pants and says nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    I'm guessing someone fucked your ex by how hard you worked on this to "make your point".
    You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.

    Quote Originally Posted by b@d @pple View Post
    something you need to say?
    Nah, not really lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by collins View Post
    You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.



    Nah, not really lol.
    your opinion is just that. Yours..

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    Quote Originally Posted by collins View Post
    You actually couldn't be farther from the truth. Nothing of the sort has ever taken place with me. If I call you a friend, that holds a lot of weight. I choose my FRIENDS very carefully. I have tons of "buddies" and "acquaintences" but if a friend ever did that, the friendship would cease immediatly because that friend obviously doesn't value my friendship more than a piece of ass.



    Nah, not really lol.
    oh yeah...I forgot that someone's views that didn't agree with yours were considered "fail".

    I, personally, disagree with that. I don't see how that's considered "fail". It's MY opinion. Quite frankly, if I break up with someone, I'm letting them go because they weren't right for me. They might be right for my friend. Who am I to stop someone from being happy?? You may disagree with that, but I really don't care what you think. I'm not gonna sit there and tell you that your OPINION is wrong.

    Get over yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    oh yeah...I forgot that someone's views that didn't agree with yours were considered "fail".

    I, personally, disagree with that. I don't see how that's considered "fail". It's MY opinion. Quite frankly, if I break up with someone, I'm letting them go because they weren't right for me. They might be right for my friend. Who am I to stop someone from being happy?? You may disagree with that, but I really don't care what you think. I'm not gonna sit there and tell you that your OPINION is wrong.

    Get over yourself.
    I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

    I guess you got your second wind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900 View Post
    I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

    I guess you got your second wind.
    I'm over the topic of the thread, yes. That's not what I'm talking about with collins. I'm talking about the fact that he thinks his opinion is right over everyone else's. That's all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900 View Post
    I thought you were "over this" like 5 pages ago????

    I guess you got your second wind.
    easy killer

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evil Goat View Post
    lol, you're getting your panties in a wad over a girl you can't be with?

    i applaud your buddy for banging this chick, we all know it has happened, because she is fair game. you aren't the boss of her, you aren't the boss of your buddy, fuck you and send me videos of your buddy beating that shit to death while you're stuck in another state whining on an internet forum about some throw away chick when you should really be trying to find a bitch to be banging yourself...

    stop bitching, get the fuck off the internet, and go fuck some hoes
    Don't sugar coat it, tell me how you really feel..

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    Don't sugar coat it, tell me how you really feel..
    it's fairly easy man. i apply the "he who cares the least" tactic to every part of my life and so far so good
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    Quote Originally Posted by Echonova View Post
    I got five on it, that if this guy ever does meet Evil Goat he shits his pants and says nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evil Goat View Post
    it's fairly easy man. i apply the "he who cares the least" tactic to every part of my life and so far so good
    It's all good man, like I said before Im not hellbent on it lol; plus Im pretty happy how the situation is turning out...

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    It's always been an unspoken thing between my cousins my age and my friends that you get an ok before doing something like this.
    You know better; next time will be a ban.

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    wait wait wait...... we've met? i'm srsly not trying to be an asshole, but i honestly dont remember that...

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    just going by your posts. hence the pm you got

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    Quote Originally Posted by collins View Post
    just going by your posts. hence the pm you got
    As was I

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    Hell no! No way no how. That's against one of the biggest Man Laws
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    ok...so far my estimate is correct....

    Over 50% of IA members are Trashbags. Glad it's not 90%

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    with this thread you know when and who you can bring your girl around without having to worry about your friend trying to take her while your together or when you break up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    with this thread you know when and who you can bring your girl around without having to worry about your friend trying to take her while your together or when you break up.
    Well the girl cannot be "taken" if she doesn't want to go.... just sayin'

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    Quote Originally Posted by AdriSciontC View Post
    Well the girl cannot be "taken" if she doesn't want to go.... just sayin'
    In that situation I cant argue.. IF she wants to be taken fine, but if she's being told lies so she's more incline to "leaving" then that's a problem. My problem was/is [whatever] is what has been said multiple times in this thread.. there are countless of girls in the world let alone in the area we live in.. Plus there is the factor of being honorable to a friend's feelings. I WILL NEVER date a friend's "ex" OR a girl that my friend is really into. But that's just me, Hell watch SEXDRIVE... funny movie but understands "guy code".

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    Id date GkTib if AdriScionTc leaves em.

    Does it make a difference if its a another dude

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    Maybe, I think it depends on how long they dated and if they were "in love"

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    You don't claim a vagina for life by being with a woman, man up and get another one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alpine_aw11 View Post
    You don't claim a vagina for life by being with a woman, man up and get another one.
    LoL I will if need to BUT events has changed..

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    shes her own woman isnt she? so if u have a friend that wants to talk to her and shes feeling him then u have no say-so.
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    i vote yes, but only if she's a good brain surgeon..... if ya know what i mean...
    Drillin' switches on them bitches!

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    you know whats funny is, i was actually thinking about posting this same topic yesterday, cause i heard about it on Tyra and i think it isn't a good idea, because you don't really want sloppy seconds now do you? you friend may still have feelings for them they never got over so you never know who you can trust. its just easy access for cheating in my opinion

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    every single guy my bestie dates is my ex's. i think she's been with the same guy for so long because i haven't been single again so she could date my latest ex. lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Buttons View Post
    every single guy my bestie dates is my ex's. i think she's been with the same guy for so long because i haven't been single again so she could date my latest ex. lol
    I don't like girls like that! I just found out today that a girl that used to be my best friend tried to have sex with my ex in high school. Told him that she always wanted him and when we were together! She even dated one of my boyfriends while I was with him!!! Slut!
    THAT'S MY JAM!
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