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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    You can not control who she goes out and sees, I have never said that. Your true friends should honor how you feel. She can try to go for a guy's best friend but if he is a true friend and the guy doesn't want his friend with her then it will never happen (applies to true friends only).

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    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol
    It's fucked up either way. Guys usually listen to each other at my age, and if it were the case of them being in "love" well that is bullshit. Love is 99.69% impossible to find at younger ages. I may love the cougar I slept with two weeks ago, but I don't love her (Yes it makes sense).

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    It's fucked up either way. Guys usually listen to each other at my age, and if it were the case of them being in "love" well that is bullshit. Love is 99.69% impossible to find at younger ages. I may love the cougar I slept with two weeks ago, but I don't love her (Yes it makes sense).
    You just proved my point lol Love is hard to find at that age (including my age because I know someone is gonna give me shit for preaching when I'm only 18), so why the fuck should it matter?? You'll find someone else eventually and then this girl won't even matter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    You just proved my point lol Love is hard to find at that age (including my age because I know someone is gonna give me shit for preaching when I'm only 18), so why the fuck should it matter?? You'll find someone else eventually and then this girl won't even matter.
    If it's not love then what is the point? If it isn't forever then it's sex training, money wasted (usually), and time wasted (always).

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    If it's not love then what is the point? If it isn't forever then it's sex training, money wasted (usually), and time wasted (always).
    girls always think some other dude is gunna make them happier and treat them better than the dude before lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by lanning View Post
    girls always think some other dude is gunna make them happier and treat them better than the dude before lol
    Which I love, and I love how they never learn not to send nudie pictures.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    Which I love, and I love how they never learn not to send nudie pictures.
    lol its like all guys owe these girls something, newds are cool with me tho

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    Quote Originally Posted by lanning View Post
    girls always think some other dude is gunna make them happier and treat them better than the dude before lol
    lolol what other excuse do we have when a guy dumps us on our ass??

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    lolol what other excuse do we have when a guy dumps us on our ass??
    lol im not talking about girls getting dumped im talking about girls that want to be taken out to eat 3 times a day and to the mall to get shoes everyday. girls that want to go out everynight and me pay for all their drinks. lol i dont owe some girl that haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    If it's not love then what is the point? If it isn't forever then it's sex training, money wasted (usually), and time wasted (always).
    Sigh....and I think my point went over your head lol I mean it like, if you're gonna give someone up that easily and you're THAT young...you know you're gonna find someone else. You've got a lot of time to look. You learn from your mistakes (like letting a girl that you really like go when you still like her). That's a part of growing up. Why dwell on it and get pissed at someone else when they're just trying to be happy and live their life?

    My mind is not caring about this subject enough to make valid points anymore lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    lolol what other excuse do we have when a guy dumps us on our ass??
    Millions of things.

    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Sigh....and I think my point went over your head lol I mean it like, if you're gonna give someone up that easily and you're THAT young...you know you're gonna find someone else. You've got a lot of time to look. You learn from your mistakes (like letting a girl that you really like go when you still like her). That's a part of growing up. Why dwell on it and get pissed at someone else when they're just trying to be happy and live their life?

    My mind is not caring about this subject enough to make valid points anymore lol
    You are this...


    I am this...


    Now do you understand?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    You are this...


    I am this...


    Now do you understand?
    Ok, now THAT made sense

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol

    See, this is typical girl thought process......Let ME have it both ways....

    Why would it matter if his friend only wanted to fuck her until she cried uncle????? Didn't you say that since he let her go she was "fair game"????? So what does what he wants to do with her matter then? Why should HE look out for her best interest when it's clear neither of them are looking out for his????

    Give me a break. The "friend" is a piece of shit. If the story is true as it's being told, then that "friend" KNOWS how this guy feels about said girl which makes HIM a bigger pile of dog shit for going after her in the first place. A TRUE friend would've worked to get them back together NOT slide on in there using insider info to get in her pants. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. I'd beat his ass and fuck HER best friend to let them both know how it feels....

    Friends should be friends no matter what. I've literally had many of my friend's gf's, wive's, ex's, etc. damn near fully naked in front of me and I NEVER even thought about taking it there (both when I was a nothing knowing youngster and fully cooked old man). NEVER have I, never would I. I even had one totally tell me that SHE WANTED to do me.....DO ME.....signed sealed and delivered on a silver platter....she was a hottie too. You know what I said? Thank you, but NO THANK YOU. They never got back together, and I STILL didn't do anything. I was in my teens when that happened and I STILL didn't do anything....out of respect for MY friend, because I damn sure would've worn her out and made her walk funny for a week otherwise.

    There are millions of women out there that can be had. Why in the world would I "try" one that will only net me the loss of a friend and make me look like a piece of shit?

    If you do something like this, then it shows just what kind of person you really are, good or bad. Bottomline and straight up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900 View Post
    See, this is typical girl thought process......Let ME have it both ways....

    Why would it matter if his friend only wanted to fuck her until she cried uncle????? Didn't you say that since he let her go she was "fair game"????? So what does what he wants to do with her matter then? Why should HE look out for her best interest when it's clear neither of them are looking out for his????

    Give me a break. The "friend" is a piece of shit. If the story is true as it's being told, then that "friend" KNOWS how this guy feels about said girl which makes HIM a bigger pile of dog shit for going after her in the first place. A TRUE friend would've worked to get them back together NOT slide on in there using insider info to get in her pants. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. I'd beat his ass and fuck HER best friend to let them both know how it feels....

    Friends should be friends no matter what. I've literally had many of my friend's gf's, wive's, ex's, etc. damn near fully naked in front of me and I NEVER even thought about taking it there (both when I was a nothing knowing youngster and fully cooked old man). NEVER have I, never would I. I even had one totally tell me that SHE WANTED to do me.....DO ME.....signed sealed and delivered on a silver platter....she was a hottie too. You know what I said? Thank you, but NO THANK YOU. They never got back together, and I STILL didn't do anything. I was in my teens when that happened and I STILL didn't do anything....out of respect for MY friend, because I damn sure would've worn her out and made her walk funny for a week otherwise.

    There are millions of women out there that can be had. Why in the world would I "try" one that will only net me the loss of a friend and make me look like a piece of shit?

    If you do something like this, then it shows just what kind of person you really are, good or bad. Bottomline and straight up.
    ok...congrats? I mean, you said no to another guy's ex. Cool. That's YOUR opinion. Doesn't affect mine. I still think that if you give up a girl, then she's up for grabs. Bottomline and straight up.

    Also, I didn't say he couldn't fuck her. If he wants it, go for it. That's his decision. To me, that seems a little desperate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    ok...congrats? I mean, you said no to another guy's ex. Cool. That's YOUR opinion. Doesn't affect mine. I still think that if you give up a girl, then she's up for grabs. Bottomline and straight up.
    I call bullshit on this. I'd bet that if YOU were the one getting fucked over you'd talk a different game. Whatever. When it happens to you, then come talk. If you think that YOUR "friends" are cool when they fuck your ex's, then good for you. Great friends you have there young lady.

    Also, I didn't say he couldn't fuck her. If he wants it, go for it. That's his decision. To me, that seems a little desperate.
    Again, with the flip flopping. Why is he "desperate"? Because he wants a piece of ass? Isn't that the ultimate purpose when you go out with someone? Isn't that what all you girls think anyway?

    My prediction? He's gonna fuck her and they're not going to work out at all. All that will be left is a shitty friend and a shitty ex. Winners all the way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900 View Post
    I call bullshit on this. I'd bet that if YOU were the one getting fucked over you'd talk a different game. Whatever. When it happens to you, then come talk. If you think that YOUR "friends" are cool when they fuck your ex's, then good for you. Great friends you have there young lady.



    Again, with the flip flopping. Why is he "desperate"? Because he wants a piece of ass? Isn't that the ultimate purpose when you go out with someone? Isn't that what all you girls think anyway?

    My prediction? He's gonna fuck her and they're not going to work out at all. All that will be left is a shitty friend and a shitty ex. Winners all the way.
    I'm so tired of arguing this. If my friend wants to go for my ex, so be it. I may not like it, but am I gonna try and stop it? Absolutely not.

    I really don't care about the fucking thing. If he fucks her...whatever. Mike made a point about it earlier that I agree with, but don't really wanna search for lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    I'm so tired of arguing this. If my friend wants to go for my ex, so be it. I may not like it, but am I gonna try and stop it? Absolutely not.
    Seems you missed the whole boat on this one.

    The point here is not weather or not he can "stop it" from happening. The point is weather or not someone should do it in the first place.

    Nobody can "stop" anything from happening. What's he gonna do?...Kill them both? That's the only way to "stop it". But much like even YOU admit, it doesn't feel good. Why not? I thought it was "fair game" when you let it go? Why would it bother you if that was really true?

    Like I said, when it happens to you, then come talk about how calm and cool you're with it. I know I wouldn't be at all, so I wouldn't do it to any of my friends. It's real easy for anyone to say that they'd be cool about it, until it happens for real to them. Very few people could forecast like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900 View Post
    Seems you missed the whole boat on this one.

    The point here is not weather or not he can "stop it" from happening. The point is weather or not someone should do it in the first place.

    Nobody can "stop" anything from happening. What's he gonna do?...Kill them both? That's the only way to "stop it". But much like even YOU admit, it doesn't feel good. Why not? I thought it was "fair game" when you let it go? Why would it bother you if that was really true?

    Like I said, when it happens to you, then come talk about how calm and cool you're with it. I know I wouldn't be at all, so I wouldn't do it to any of my friends. It's real easy for anyone to say that they'd be cool about it, until it happens for real to them. Very few people could forecast like that.
    I never said it shouldn't BOTHER him. It's obviously gonna bother him. It'd bother almost anyone. I'm so tired of arguing this. It actually has happened to me. Was I bothered? Yes. Did I care enough to bitch about it? Not really.

    Did that answer whatever you were trying to prove or say? lol

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