If he made me happy, yes. Why should I sacrifice my happiness for someone who obviously thought I wasn't good enough to keep around?Originally Posted by lanning
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If he made me happy, yes. Why should I sacrifice my happiness for someone who obviously thought I wasn't good enough to keep around?
Hooker. lol.
You just proved my point lol Love is hard to find at that age (including my age because I know someone is gonna give me shit for preaching when I'm only 18), so why the fuck should it matter?? You'll find someone else eventually and then this girl won't even matter.
If it's not love then what is the point? If it isn't forever then it's sex training, money wasted (usually), and time wasted (always).
girls always think some other dude is gunna make them happier and treat them better than the dude before lol
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Which I love, and I love how they never learn not to send nudie pictures.
Sigh....and I think my point went over your head lol I mean it like, if you're gonna give someone up that easily and you're THAT young...you know you're gonna find someone else. You've got a lot of time to look. You learn from your mistakes (like letting a girl that you really like go when you still like her). That's a part of growing up. Why dwell on it and get pissed at someone else when they're just trying to be happy and live their life?
My mind is not caring about this subject enough to make valid points anymore lol
lolol what other excuse do we have when a guy dumps us on our ass??
Millions of things.
You are this...
I am this...
Now do you understand?
lol its like all guys owe these girls something, newds are cool with me tho
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Ok, now THAT made senseYou are this...
I am this...
Now do you understand?
Alls fair on love and war. Period.
Just cause YOU and your ex didn't work out doesn't mean she's off limits. It's all about compatiblity. If you weren't compatible doesn't me I'm not.
Now if he/she did something really fucked up to your "friend" then I would have no interest in them anyway.
If you are just trying to get laid ,well there's plenty of those types around why "shit" where you "eat".
But if you two are generally attracted to eAch other then have at it and your "friend" shouldn't be a pussy
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lol im not talking about girls getting dumped im talking about girls that want to be taken out to eat 3 times a day and to the mall to get shoes everyday. girls that want to go out everynight and me pay for all their drinks. lol i dont owe some girl that haha
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THANK YOU!! lol
exactly what I was trying to say
You were just trying to say it though...THANK YOU!! lol
exactly what I was trying to say
I still don't think it's cool till the guy says it is cool though.
However you are still an apple.
I think if you let the girl treat you like that then that's your own fault lol
My ex took me out every night and paid for EVERYTHING and now I hate when guys pay for my stuff. I like relaxing at home rather than going out every single night.
and you are still an orange
she's fair game if she's not married sorry. Your fuck up isn't his problem. So he has an inside track on what she's like or likes so what that's good intel lol
again if he's truly interested in her then it's fair game. If hes just trying to fuck her then he has no game and needs your leftovers and she should see through it.
Never invite competition
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See, this is typical girl thought process......Let ME have it both ways....
Why would it matter if his friend only wanted to fuck her until she cried uncle????? Didn't you say that since he let her go she was "fair game"????? So what does what he wants to do with her matter then? Why should HE look out for her best interest when it's clear neither of them are looking out for his????
Give me a break. The "friend" is a piece of shit. If the story is true as it's being told, then that "friend" KNOWS how this guy feels about said girl which makes HIM a bigger pile of dog shit for going after her in the first place. A TRUE friend would've worked to get them back together NOT slide on in there using insider info to get in her pants. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. I'd beat his ass and fuck HER best friend to let them both know how it feels....
Friends should be friends no matter what. I've literally had many of my friend's gf's, wive's, ex's, etc. damn near fully naked in front of me and I NEVER even thought about taking it there (both when I was a nothing knowing youngster and fully cooked old man). NEVER have I, never would I. I even had one totally tell me that SHE WANTED to do me.....DO ME.....signed sealed and delivered on a silver platter....she was a hottie too. You know what I said? Thank you, but NO THANK YOU. They never got back together, and I STILL didn't do anything. I was in my teens when that happened and I STILL didn't do anything....out of respect for MY friend, because I damn sure would've worn her out and made her walk funny for a week otherwise.
There are millions of women out there that can be had. Why in the world would I "try" one that will only net me the loss of a friend and make me look like a piece of shit?
If you do something like this, then it shows just what kind of person you really are, good or bad. Bottomline and straight up.
You date the wrong women lol
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The whole point of a friendship is supporting their decisions and being there for them, whether its a friend or ex-girlfriend/boyfriend. Everyone in the situation is as guilty as the other. He let her go, she's going to his friend, friend is going for her.
As long as deceit wasn't used by FAM0U5's friend to break them up in the beginning then it shouldn't matter who ends up with her. I bet FAM0U5 hasn't officially communicated with his "friend" or his ex about the situation either. What if she's playing games with FAM0U5 solely to get him to man-up and do "his plan" so she's getting friendly with his friend? What better way to get someones attention than go for someone they know? It's not like that would be the first time to happen around here lol!
That would be your fault for getting in that situation though. If you don't want to date a needy girl that can't do anything for herself then don't do it.
ok...congrats? I mean, you said no to another guy's ex. Cool. That's YOUR opinion. Doesn't affect mine. I still think that if you give up a girl, then she's up for grabs. Bottomline and straight up.See, this is typical girl thought process......Let ME have it both ways....
Why would it matter if his friend only wanted to fuck her until she cried uncle????? Didn't you say that since he let her go she was "fair game"????? So what does what he wants to do with her matter then? Why should HE look out for her best interest when it's clear neither of them are looking out for his????
Give me a break. The "friend" is a piece of shit. If the story is true as it's being told, then that "friend" KNOWS how this guy feels about said girl which makes HIM a bigger pile of dog shit for going after her in the first place. A TRUE friend would've worked to get them back together NOT slide on in there using insider info to get in her pants. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. I'd beat his ass and fuck HER best friend to let them both know how it feels....
Friends should be friends no matter what. I've literally had many of my friend's gf's, wive's, ex's, etc. damn near fully naked in front of me and I NEVER even thought about taking it there (both when I was a nothing knowing youngster and fully cooked old man). NEVER have I, never would I. I even had one totally tell me that SHE WANTED to do me.....DO ME.....signed sealed and delivered on a silver platter....she was a hottie too. You know what I said? Thank you, but NO THANK YOU. They never got back together, and I STILL didn't do anything. I was in my teens when that happened and I STILL didn't do anything....out of respect for MY friend, because I damn sure would've worn her out and made her walk funny for a week otherwise.
There are millions of women out there that can be had. Why in the world would I "try" one that will only net me the loss of a friend and make me look like a piece of shit?
If you do something like this, then it shows just what kind of person you really are, good or bad. Bottomline and straight up.
Also, I didn't say he couldn't fuck her. If he wants it, go for it. That's his decision. To me, that seems a little desperate.
lol not dating them i just go out alot and see how some of them act
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Didn't somebody like EJ25 have that signature last year?
Lifes too short to worry over shit like this IMO. I don't worry about it, if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out move on.
If you think your friend is being shady/scandolous then lose him as a friend
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I agree and I don't get bent out of shape over this but if one of my friends did I would honor what they wanted and hope for the same in return...
so that is why I support the guy code in this situation.
"don't have any attatchments that you can't walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner"
DeNiro "HEAT"
basically fuck it, move on, friends are replaceable so are mates
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Doubtful since I made it a week before Petit Le Mans and EJ had some questions about what year it was...commenting and leaving me reps for it
Didn't somebody like EJ25 have that signature last year?
I call bullshit on this. I'd bet that if YOU were the one getting fucked over you'd talk a different game. Whatever. When it happens to you, then come talk. If you think that YOUR "friends" are cool when they fuck your ex's, then good for you. Great friends you have there young lady.
Again, with the flip flopping.Also, I didn't say he couldn't fuck her. If he wants it, go for it. That's his decision. To me, that seems a little desperate.Why is he "desperate"? Because he wants a piece of ass? Isn't that the ultimate purpose when you go out with someone? Isn't that what all you girls think anyway?
My prediction? He's gonna fuck her and they're not going to work out at all. All that will be left is a shitty friend and a shitty ex. Winners all the way.
Ahh I guess it was you and haven't seen you post in awhile then. Pretty cool.Doubtful since I made it a week before Petit Le Mans and EJ had some questions about what year it was...commenting and leaving me reps for it
I'm so tired of arguing this. If my friend wants to go for my ex, so be it. I may not like it, but am I gonna try and stop it? Absolutely not.I call bullshit on this. I'd bet that if YOU were the one getting fucked over you'd talk a different game. Whatever. When it happens to you, then come talk. If you think that YOUR "friends" are cool when they fuck your ex's, then good for you. Great friends you have there young lady.
Again, with the flip flopping.
My prediction? He's gonna fuck her and they're not going to work out at all. All that will be left is a shitty friend and a shitty ex. Winners all the way.
I really don't care about the fucking thing. If he fucks her...whatever. Mike made a point about it earlier that I agree with, but don't really wanna search for lol
Seems you missed the whole boat on this one.
The point here is not weather or not he can "stop it" from happening. The point is weather or not someone should do it in the first place.
Nobody can "stop" anything from happening. What's he gonna do?...Kill them both? That's the only way to "stop it". But much like even YOU admit, it doesn't feel good. Why not? I thought it was "fair game" when you let it go? Why would it bother you if that was really true?
Like I said, when it happens to you, then come talk about how calm and cool you're with it. I know I wouldn't be at all, so I wouldn't do it to any of my friends. It's real easy for anyone to say that they'd be cool about it, until it happens for real to them. Very few people could forecast like that.
fair game / thread
You don't like anybody, so you wouldn't be a good subject.....
there are many varying opinions on this subject... some from the experienced; some from the inexperienced. i don't think it really matters what someone says when they are outside of the situation...as this is the logical and rational thought process. when in the throes of the situation, the emotional thought process takes over and all logic dissipates.
what is key here is that the 'friend' needs to use rational thought and understand where the OP is at emotionally. if he would do this, he would understand that there are far too many women that are single and available in his general location to worry with a girl that is his friend's ex. caring about your friend's emotional health > getting laid.
if you can't put your friend's feelings above your own, whether or not they are rational or correct, you are not a true friend.
lol..i got my eye on a dime piece sir..all in good timeYou don't like anybody, so you wouldn't be a good subject.....
I didn't mean you didn't like the ladies.....you don't like everybody else though....
Hey, OT.....when are you gonna fix my stereo cluster fuck that I got?
i like a select few people..yes jamie youre one of them..and i will fix your cluster fuck when ever you wantI didn't mean you didn't like the ladies.....you don't like everybody else though....
Hey, OT.....when are you gonna fix my stereo cluster fuck that I got?
If you were in a serious relationship for a while.....and it ended badly....then no I dont think its cool. If you were just talking or whatever and not serious...I dont see a problem with it as long as you(the ex) isn't bothered by it.
Bros before hoes right? lol
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