guy code or whatever..

[roxie911]

No, NO, and HELL NO.

You never date a friend's ex. NEVER. If they are truly your friend, then you respect that, period.

Some of you have not been fully cooked yet, so this is where having been around the block a few times, i.e. being old, is advantageous.

Friend's exes should always be strictly off limits, UNLESS you either have, A: the friend's blessing, or B: it was just some menial one-night type of relationship. If they dated for any reasonable length of time or you KNOW that he/she (your friend) had feelings for that other person......then its absolutely "NO".

Why should it even matter?? If you let someone go, you're saying they're free game for anyone. If you're gonna get hurt by someone talking or flirting with your girl, then you're obviously not over them and probably shouldn't have broken up with them in the first place.

[Miss.Kayla]

I mean if it was me and my bf left me and his friend hit on me, id have to punch his friend. but then again it also depends on how long you guys dated cus ive been with mine for 4 years . but i still wouldn't go for my bf's friends. thats just sleazy on both their parts. just tell her how you feel cus obviously you still have something for her of you wouldnt be concerned about her