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  1. 01-04-2010, 07:15 PM #1
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    I think that's stupid...you can't help who you're attracted to. Plus, in 10 years it's not even gonna matter, so, why dwell on it now?
    It's not something Im gonna be pround about, knowing that the chick Im with was with my friends as well.. Thats just me, also it may create a problem up ahead maybe a "rekindling" an old flame.. something that I wouldnt want to brother with.. just saying

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  2. 01-04-2010, 07:20 PM #2
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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    It's not something Im gonna be pround about, knowing that the chick Im with was with my friends as well.. Thats just me, also it may create a problem up ahead maybe a "rekindling" an old flame.. something that I wouldnt want to brother with.. just saying
    Who cares what your friend thinks?? He's obviously ok with the idea. If YOU were HIS friends you'd just be glad that he's happy, right? Like I said before, if you really wanted her you wouldn't have let her go.
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  3. 01-04-2010, 07:26 PM #3
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Who cares what your friend thinks?? He's obviously ok with the idea. If YOU were HIS friends you'd just be glad that he's happy, right? Like I said before, if you really wanted her you wouldn't have let her go.
    Yes I would be happy for him.. but this is not the case, He knew that now that Im better and able to do things and was trying to get back with her wether it be starting over or whatever.. I was gonna try. He told me not to that he didn't want to see me depress again and whatnot but yet he's trying to get with her? after he told me not to.. so he's draging my name threw the mudd to make him look better? which is also part of the story but didnt care to give details.

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  4. 01-04-2010, 07:29 PM #4
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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    Yes I would be happy for him.. but this is not the case, He knew that now that Im better and able to do things and was trying to get back with her wether it be starting over or whatever.. I was gonna try. He told me not to that he didn't want to see me depress again and whatnot but yet he's trying to get with her? after he told me not to.. so he's draging my name threw the mudd to make him look better? which is also part of the story but didnt care to give details.
    So...you gave up a girl because of personal problems?? I'm just gonna say what I said before...if you REALLY REALLY liked her and really wanted her, you would've found a way to make it work.

    If he's doing that then he's not a real friend. So, I guess that makes the man law kinda pointless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    So...you gave up a girl because of personal problems?? I'm just gonna say what I said before...if you REALLY REALLY liked her and really wanted her, you would've found a way to make it work.

    If he's doing that then he's not a real friend. So, I guess that makes the man law kinda poitnless.
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  6. 01-04-2010, 07:33 PM #6
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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    Girls like you live under rainbows and are surrounded by butterflies or leprechauns all the time.
    lol no. I'm being practical. You let a girl go. Girl finds another guy (she's not gonna sit around and wait forever). You find another girl who makes you just as happy. You forget about past girl eventually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    lol no. I'm being practical. You let a girl go. Girl finds another guy (she's not gonna sit around and wait forever). You find another girl who makes you just as happy. You forget about past girl eventually.
    Yeah but she's not fair game for true friends. No if ands or buts about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    So...you gave up a girl because of personal problems?? I'm just gonna say what I said before...if you REALLY REALLY liked her and really wanted her, you would've found a way to make it work.

    If he's doing that then he's not a real friend. So, I guess that makes the man law kinda poitnless.
    Well thanks roxy for your thoughts.. well personal problems was invloved but not fully but oh well I wanted to know what IA thought and wonder If I was alone in this feeling. Again not bent over it just a lil eh.. oh well, good thing my other girl wont ever leave me cause she cant; till I sell her lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    Well thanks roxie for your thoughts.. well personal problems was invloved but not fully but oh well I wanted to know what IA thought and wonder If I was alone in this feeling. Again not bent over it just a lil eh.. oh well, good thing my other girl wont ever leave me cause she cant; till I sell her lol.
    Just giving you my opinion Glad you're not getting all pissed because some people disagree with you lol Good luck with it anyway
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  10. 01-04-2010, 07:38 PM #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Just giving you my opinion Glad you're not getting all pissed because some people disagree with you lol Good luck with it anyway
    Well there is no point in trying to make other people think like me. Everyone thinks differently I just think it was F up that it only has been a month-ish today.

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