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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    So...you gave up a girl because of personal problems?? I'm just gonna say what I said before...if you REALLY REALLY liked her and really wanted her, you would've found a way to make it work.

    If he's doing that then he's not a real friend. So, I guess that makes the man law kinda poitnless.
    Girls like you live under rainbows and are surrounded by butterflies or leprechauns all the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    Girls like you live under rainbows and are surrounded by butterflies or leprechauns all the time.
    lol no. I'm being practical. You let a girl go. Girl finds another guy (she's not gonna sit around and wait forever). You find another girl who makes you just as happy. You forget about past girl eventually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    lol no. I'm being practical. You let a girl go. Girl finds another guy (she's not gonna sit around and wait forever). You find another girl who makes you just as happy. You forget about past girl eventually.
    Yeah but she's not fair game for true friends. No if ands or buts about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    Yeah but she's not fair game for true friends. No if ands or buts about it.
    That's not the way I look at it, but it's whatever.

    If you let a girl go, you can't control who she goes out and sees. If you're gonna get pissed because she's seeing someone you're not comfortable with, then you shouldn't have let her go.

    but once again, that's my just opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    That's not the way I look at it, but it's whatever.

    If you let a girl go, you can't control who she goes out and sees. If you're gonna get pissed because she's seeing someone you're not comfortable with, then you shouldn't have let her go.

    but once again, that's my just opinion.
    You can not control who she goes out and sees, I have never said that. Your true friends should honor how you feel. She can try to go for a guy's best friend but if he is a true friend and the guy doesn't want his friend with her then it will never happen (applies to true friends only).

    See the difference?

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    Quote Originally Posted by LS3_KID View Post
    You can not control who she goes out and sees, I have never said that. Your true friends should honor how you feel. She can try to go for a guy's best friend but if he is a true friend and the guy doesn't want his friend with her then it will never happen (applies to true friends only).

    See the difference?
    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol
    It's fucked up either way. Guys usually listen to each other at my age, and if it were the case of them being in "love" well that is bullshit. Love is 99.69% impossible to find at younger ages. I may love the cougar I slept with two weeks ago, but I don't love her (Yes it makes sense).

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    Quote Originally Posted by roxie911 View Post
    Not really. I think if your friend feels that he'd be happy with her, then you should be all for it. Now, if he was just trying to fuck her I'd be a little concerned lol

    See, this is typical girl thought process......Let ME have it both ways....

    Why would it matter if his friend only wanted to fuck her until she cried uncle????? Didn't you say that since he let her go she was "fair game"????? So what does what he wants to do with her matter then? Why should HE look out for her best interest when it's clear neither of them are looking out for his????

    Give me a break. The "friend" is a piece of shit. If the story is true as it's being told, then that "friend" KNOWS how this guy feels about said girl which makes HIM a bigger pile of dog shit for going after her in the first place. A TRUE friend would've worked to get them back together NOT slide on in there using insider info to get in her pants. Bullshit, bullshit, bullshit. I'd beat his ass and fuck HER best friend to let them both know how it feels....

    Friends should be friends no matter what. I've literally had many of my friend's gf's, wive's, ex's, etc. damn near fully naked in front of me and I NEVER even thought about taking it there (both when I was a nothing knowing youngster and fully cooked old man). NEVER have I, never would I. I even had one totally tell me that SHE WANTED to do me.....DO ME.....signed sealed and delivered on a silver platter....she was a hottie too. You know what I said? Thank you, but NO THANK YOU. They never got back together, and I STILL didn't do anything. I was in my teens when that happened and I STILL didn't do anything....out of respect for MY friend, because I damn sure would've worn her out and made her walk funny for a week otherwise.

    There are millions of women out there that can be had. Why in the world would I "try" one that will only net me the loss of a friend and make me look like a piece of shit?

    If you do something like this, then it shows just what kind of person you really are, good or bad. Bottomline and straight up.

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