Attn: Dudes in a Relationship!!!

[ilovemyhonda.]

im down if she is

awhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! !!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
got to go to work later,DG.




















jk QD.

a 4some? great just what the doctor ordered! :idb:

[quickdodge®]

LOL ask her and see if she likes something special every once in a while.... key phrase ASK HER.... and I'm not talking about physical "special things", you may be surprised by her response. I don't think this thread is stating "You don't love your woman if you don't text her and let her know".... just it makes a girl/woman feel special to HEAR that you think of her.... there are many men out there who provide for their family and screw the secretary on the side (not love IMO even though they're being provided for)...Not saying you do that, but just making a point...

Glad to hear you're doing well for yourself and your fam!

See now you're changing it up a bit. You're now going from "your girl doesn't know how you feel" to "it just makes her feel special."

I'll admit I can understand the crap when you're in your first year or so of a relationship you wanting to tell her more often, but get in a real relationship. Get in one that you're putting everything into (I don't mean some BF/GF thing either). I didn't do that shit to my wife before we got married and we're 10 years deep in the marriage. She has no designs to leave either and it's not because I lost the key to the chain holding her in the house.

There's a difference in making her feel special and coddling to her insecurities. Telling her you love her to make her feel good inside or whatever is cool (not all day/everyday), but telling her you love her because she doesn't feel like you do is not cool.

And thanks on the fam bit. Later, QD.

[ilovemyhonda.]

See now you're changing it up a bit. You're now going from "your girl doesn't know how you feel" to "it just makes her feel special."

I'll admit I can understand the crap when you're in your first year or so of a relationship you wanting to tell her more often, but get in a real relationship. Get in one that you're putting everything into (I don't mean some BF/GF thing either). I didn't do that shit to my wife before we got married and we're 10 years deep in the marriage. She has no designs to leave either and it's not because I lost the key to the chain holding her in the house.

There's a difference in making her feel special and coddling to her insecurities. Telling her you love her to make her feel good inside or whatever is cool (not all day/everyday), but telling her you love her because she doesn't feel like you do is not cool.

And thanks on the fam bit. Later, QD.

I concur to this. That is kinda what I was saying in one of my post. When the relationship is fresh and hot people tend to tell there other half more often the way they feel but when you are deep in a relationship it is pretty much a given how you feel.

[The Ren]

See now you're changing it up a bit. You're now going from "your girl doesn't know how you feel" to "it just makes her feel special."

I'll admit I can understand the crap when you're in your first year or so of a relationship you wanting to tell her more often, but get in a real relationship. Get in one that you're putting everything into (I don't mean some BF/GF thing either). I didn't do that shit to my wife before we got married and we're 10 years deep in the marriage. She has no designs to leave either and it's not because I lost the key to the chain holding her in the house.

There's a difference in making her feel special and coddling to her insecurities. Telling her you love her to make her feel good inside or whatever is cool (not all day/everyday), but telling her you love her because she doesn't feel like you do is not cool.

And thanks on the fam bit. Later, QD.

Totally agreed! But this applies to some guys to. Im not going to tell my boyfriend I love him to make him feel better about his insecurities. Of course our situation is a bit difference since we are long distance and constant talk is the only way we can keep communication up until we get engaged and we decide who is moving where.

[quickdodge®]

Totally agreed! But this applies to some guys to. Im not going to tell my boyfriend I love him to make him feel better about his insecurities. Of course our situation is a bit difference since we are long distance and constant talk is the only way we can keep communication up until we get engaged and we decide who is moving where.

Yes. Although I am speaking from a dude's perspective, I do mean it for both sides.

And long distance relationships can be a different scenario. Communication is key i that sense. Later, QD.

[BABY J]

Totally agreed! But this applies to some guys to. Im not going to tell my boyfriend I love him to make him feel better about his insecurities. Of course our situation is a bit difference since we are long distance and constant talk is the only way we can keep communication up until we get engaged and we decide who is moving where.

I always worry about things like this. It's hardly ever worth it to do distance just to say "i have a bf/gf". I won't do it unless there is ALREADY a plan in place to eliminate that distance... or you're already engaged. I've seen a lot of broken hearts w/ setups like this after spending 8 years in the Air Force. Make SURE you use your head on this one... just lookin out for ya kiddo

/ thread jack

[The Ren]

I always worry about things like this. It's hardly ever worth it to do distance just to say "i have a bf/gf". I won't do it unless there is ALREADY a plan in place to eliminate that distance... or you're already engaged. I've seen a lot of broken hearts w/ setups like this after spending 8 years in the Air Force. Make SURE you use your head on this one... just lookin out for ya kiddo

/ thread jack

I know ya are and I appreciate it..

[BABY J]

I know ya are and I appreciate it..

[imperception]

please provide good (attractive) woman for me to text...would be happy to do so...

damn good thread though...

[tpike09]

hell yea i like the way you think man

[87 Turbo II]

Lol I tried this with a girl I am TRYING to get into a relationship with, and I got "you think about me?" and I went "is it bad?" and she said "no, I think about you too". I did this cause I kinda had nothing to lose, and I WAS thinking about her, and now I've got a date Sunday, so thanks Liz, this advice actually kind of worked, even though I was supposed ot take the advice if I was actually IN the relationship already.

[BABY J]

^^ The only thing she thinks is that you're a PUSSY b/c while ur texting her, some guy with balls is actually TELLING her he misses her.

[GirlieZ]

i cant count the number of times i get cute text messages AND we are married..

that whole 'it goes down hill after you tie the knot' mentality is ALL wrong, it just got better

[87 Turbo II]

^^ The only thing she thinks is that you're a PUSSY b/c while ur texting her, some guy with balls is actually TELLING her he misses her.

haha I doubt that, this girl LOVES texting, she is crazy about it for w/e reason. Normally I'd agree with you but I get text messages from her all the time.

[quickdodge®]

i cant count the number of times i get cute text messages AND we are married..

that whole 'it goes down hill after you tie the knot' mentality is ALL wrong, it just got better

Yeah, but you have to make sure it's better because you have to stick with what you have for fear you won't get shit else.

Not to mention you're still newlyweds. Reading comprehension failure. Later, QD.

[LizBiz]

^^ The only thing she thinks is that you're a PUSSY b/c while ur texting her, some guy with balls is actually TELLING her he misses her.

shut........up! Damn negative nancy. Take advice from a girl....I am one....I know what the business is. Duh.

Regardless of how *off course* the thread got, I'm glad I could help those that did it!!!!!

[LizBiz]

Lol I tried this with a girl I am TRYING to get into a relationship with, and I got "you think about me?" and I went "is it bad?" and she said "no, I think about you too". I did this cause I kinda had nothing to lose, and I WAS thinking about her, and now I've got a date Sunday, so thanks Liz, this advice actually kind of worked, even though I was supposed ot take the advice if I was actually IN the relationship already.

[BABY J]

shut........up! Damn negative nancy. Take advice from a girl....I am one....I know what the business is. Duh.

Regardless of how *off course* the thread got, I'm glad I could help those that did it!!!!!

LOL @ Negative Nancy.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL? LMAO!!! Hell even smart girls know better than to do that - lol.

[LizBiz]

LOL @ Negative Nancy.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL? LMAO!!! Hell even smart girls know better than to do that - lol.

Female. *rolls eyes*

[BABY J]

[quickdodge®]

Take advice from a girl....I am one....I know what the business is. Duh.

You'll probably take this like I'm attacking you and I hope you don't, but here goes, and I'll keep it short and simple:

It's hard to take advice from someone who isn't very stable with his/her relationships. You're always posting about problems in relationships and what you've gone through and all so it doesn't seem like you're too qualified to dole out advice.

There, I said it. Like I said, it's not to attack you, but to just point out what I see. I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice.

Hope we're still cool. Later, QD.

[87 Turbo II]

good advice or bad, thinking I'm a pussy or not, I have got a date this Sunday that I otherwise would have probably spent hanging out with some of my friends talking about how we need girlfriends, so I call this a success. Don't worry Liz, even if Baby J is right my Sunday just got better. You get REPS.

[BABY J]

good advice or bad, thinking I'm a pussy or not, I have got a date this Sunday that I otherwise would have probably spent hanging out with some of my friends talking about how we need girlfriends, so I call this a success. Don't worry Liz, even if Baby J is right my Sunday just got better. You get REPS.

What's her number? I'll text her and say I'm thinking about her too and we all 3 can go on a triple date.

[LizBiz]

You'll probably take this like I'm attacking you and I hope you don't, but here goes, and I'll keep it short and simple:

It's hard to take advice from someone who isn't very stable with his/her relationships. You're always posting about problems in relationships and what you've gone through and all so it doesn't seem like you're too qualified to dole out advice.

There, I said it. Like I said, it's not to attack you, but to just point out what I see. I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice.

Hope we're still cool. Later, QD.

I understand your point, I like to call it trail and error. It's the lessons you learn from your mistakes that allow you to advise those that are currently in the same situation. I like to talk about relationships and the like, however I don't normally talk about MY relationships. IMO I don't feel like anyone is worth my time and effort at this point in time, so I could care less. I have other things I need to worry about. People just come to me on a daily basis for some reason, and I'll talk about what they come to me for.

[quickdodge®]

I understand your point, I like to call it trail and error. It's the lessons you learn from your mistakes that allow you to advise those that are currently in the same situation. I like to talk about relationships and the like, however I don't normally talk about MY relationships. IMO I don't feel like anyone is worth my time and effort at this point in time, so I could care less. I have other things I need to worry about. People just come to me on a daily basis for some reason, and I'll talk about what they come to me for.

Fair enough answer.

And I'll rest with this: I never said it was bad to text/call your other and tell them you love them or whatever. If you do, then that's you. Nothing wrong it. It's the expectation of it that I call BS on. Later, QD.

[Kevykev]

Yo Mike, I'll Slap You Son!

[LizBiz]

Fair enough answer.

And I'll rest with this: I never said it was bad to text/call your other and tell them you love them or whatever. If you do, then that's you. Nothing wrong it. It's the expectation of it that I call BS on. Later, QD.

I feel you!!! sentimental things loose their sentimental-ness when it's expected. In the end, do whatever works for you!!!

[BABY J]

I feel you!!! sentimental things loose their sentimental-ness when it's expected. In the end, do whatever works for you!!!

Fail.

The word you were looking for is sentimentalogicalisms... sentimental things lose their "sentimentalogicalisms" when they are expected.

[Kevykev]

My wife and i tell each other "I love you" everyday BUT not every single time we get off the phone. At that point it loses it's value and becomes more of a learned/expected behavioral sentimentalogicalism

Fail.

The word you were looking for is sentimentalogicalisms... sentimental things lose their "sentimentalogicalisms" when they are expected.

This Nigels Crazy

[Dr.G35]

It's the expectation of it that I call BS on. Later, QD.

x100000

[bdydrpdmazda]

womens rights my ass!

[The Creeper]

womens rights my ass!

Women are only good for one thing....:idb::idb:

[Dr.G35]

Women are only good for one thing....:idb::idb:

....and cleaning, and cooking, and children caring.

[MongolPup]

....and cleaning, and cooking, and children caring.

Roflcopter airstrike

[MongolPup]

More.

[MongolPup]

Even more more.

[GirlieZ]

Mongol pup, funny things about the mormons...that out here the word is they just PIITB before marriage since it isnt penitration, eek

[EJdm]

Any girl that bitches about me not texting her first in the morning gets kicked to the curb. Grow up you needy bitch

that right...LMAO

[Bajjani]

I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice. Later, QD.

QDizzle...aka Love Doctor

[quickdodge®]

Damn right, lolol. Later, QD.