Quote Originally Posted by civicgurlie View Post
LOL ask her and see if she likes something special every once in a while.... key phrase ASK HER.... and I'm not talking about physical "special things", you may be surprised by her response. I don't think this thread is stating "You don't love your woman if you don't text her and let her know".... just it makes a girl/woman feel special to HEAR that you think of her.... there are many men out there who provide for their family and screw the secretary on the side (not love IMO even though they're being provided for)...Not saying you do that, but just making a point...

Glad to hear you're doing well for yourself and your fam!
See now you're changing it up a bit. You're now going from "your girl doesn't know how you feel" to "it just makes her feel special."

I'll admit I can understand the crap when you're in your first year or so of a relationship you wanting to tell her more often, but get in a real relationship. Get in one that you're putting everything into (I don't mean some BF/GF thing either). I didn't do that shit to my wife before we got married and we're 10 years deep in the marriage. She has no designs to leave either and it's not because I lost the key to the chain holding her in the house.

There's a difference in making her feel special and coddling to her insecurities. Telling her you love her to make her feel good inside or whatever is cool (not all day/everyday), but telling her you love her because she doesn't feel like you do is not cool.

And thanks on the fam bit. Later, QD.