Attn: Dudes in a Relationship!!!

**BABY J** · 12-04-2009, 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

shut........up! Damn negative nancy. Take advice from a girl....I am one....I know what the business is. Duh.

Regardless of how *off course* the thread got, I'm glad I could help those that did it!!!!!

LOL @ Negative Nancy.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL? LMAO!!! Hell even smart girls know better than to do that - lol.

**LizBiz** · 12-04-2009, 12:23 AM

Originally Posted by BABY J

LOL @ Negative Nancy.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL? LMAO!!! Hell even smart girls know better than to do that - lol.

Female. *rolls eyes*

**quickdodge®** · 12-04-2009, 12:25 AM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

Take advice from a girl....I am one....I know what the business is. Duh.

You'll probably take this like I'm attacking you and I hope you don't, but here goes, and I'll keep it short and simple:

It's hard to take advice from someone who isn't very stable with his/her relationships. You're always posting about problems in relationships and what you've gone through and all so it doesn't seem like you're too qualified to dole out advice.

There, I said it. Like I said, it's not to attack you, but to just point out what I see. I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice.

Hope we're still cool. Later, QD.

**LizBiz** · 12-04-2009, 12:41 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

You'll probably take this like I'm attacking you and I hope you don't, but here goes, and I'll keep it short and simple:

It's hard to take advice from someone who isn't very stable with his/her relationships. You're always posting about problems in relationships and what you've gone through and all so it doesn't seem like you're too qualified to dole out advice.

There, I said it. Like I said, it's not to attack you, but to just point out what I see. I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice.

Hope we're still cool. Later, QD.

I understand your point, I like to call it trail and error. It's the lessons you learn from your mistakes that allow you to advise those that are currently in the same situation. I like to talk about relationships and the like, however I don't normally talk about MY relationships. IMO I don't feel like anyone is worth my time and effort at this point in time, so I could care less. I have other things I need to worry about. People just come to me on a daily basis for some reason, and I'll talk about what they come to me for.

**quickdodge®** · 12-04-2009, 12:41 AM

Originally Posted by LizBiz

I understand your point, I like to call it trail and error. It's the lessons you learn from your mistakes that allow you to advise those that are currently in the same situation. I like to talk about relationships and the like, however I don't normally talk about MY relationships. IMO I don't feel like anyone is worth my time and effort at this point in time, so I could care less. I have other things I need to worry about. People just come to me on a daily basis for some reason, and I'll talk about what they come to me for.

Fair enough answer.

And I'll rest with this: I never said it was bad to text/call your other and tell them you love them or whatever. If you do, then that's you. Nothing wrong it. It's the expectation of it that I call BS on. Later, QD.

**Bajjani** · 12-04-2009, 11:29 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

I'm in my 10th year of marriage and there is reasons I get repped and PMs like a motherfucker about relationship advice. Later, QD.

QDizzle...aka Love Doctor

**GirlieZ** · 12-03-2009, 11:16 PM

i cant count the number of times i get cute text messages AND we are married..

that whole 'it goes down hill after you tie the knot' mentality is ALL wrong, it just got better

**quickdodge®** · 12-03-2009, 11:55 PM

Originally Posted by GirlieZ

i cant count the number of times i get cute text messages AND we are married..

that whole 'it goes down hill after you tie the knot' mentality is ALL wrong, it just got better

Yeah, but you have to make sure it's better because you have to stick with what you have for fear you won't get shit else.

Not to mention you're still newlyweds. Reading comprehension failure. Later, QD.

**BABY J** · 12-04-2009, 12:24 AM

**87 Turbo II** · 12-04-2009, 12:26 AM

good advice or bad, thinking I'm a pussy or not, I have got a date this Sunday that I otherwise would have probably spent hanging out with some of my friends talking about how we need girlfriends, so I call this a success. Don't worry Liz, even if Baby J is right my Sunday just got better. You get REPS.

**BABY J** · 12-04-2009, 12:28 AM

Originally Posted by 87 Turbo II

good advice or bad, thinking I'm a pussy or not, I have got a date this Sunday that I otherwise would have probably spent hanging out with some of my friends talking about how we need girlfriends, so I call this a success. Don't worry Liz, even if Baby J is right my Sunday just got better. You get REPS.

What's her number? I'll text her and say I'm thinking about her too and we all 3 can go on a triple date.