Quote Originally Posted by XterraChic
i understand the whole kids having kids thing.. like when they are 14 15 16 having babies and what not.. but i think they should continue the pregnancy and deliver the child.. give it up for adoption so it at least has a chance for a better life.. maybe through that whole experience they will learn to wait..
that's what i don't get, you are one of the multitudes of ppl that have used adoption as a way. but what exactly happens after that? giving a kid up for adoption in most cases is not a saving grace for the child or for the parent. the parent has to go through a long and possibly difficult pregnancy (especially if they're overly young), and the kid has NO GUARANTEES whatsoever once he/she is given up for adoption. many if not most end up bouncing around homes and not given the proper upbringing or attention or opportunities a child SHOULD have. in my eyes, better to let them die as an unborn than to make them suffer through a shitty life. my :2cent:, argue it and tell me i'm wrong til you're blue in the face