Let me tell you something Tony..

I feel what you are saying. And since this is in the religion section, Im going to point out a religious way to you..but this depends upon how religious you are. If you are not religious, then everything I say is going to be garbage to you, but its all good.

God has written out everyones life for them before they even go about there life. Some people were destined to be rich. Some poor. Some will have it easy and be rich with no problems. Some will have to work real hard to get where they want to.

Everything someone does is what they do. God just gives them the power to do it. I know people who are rich and never once did they say God in anything they did. God just has different plans for them after they die. God lets them live there life on earth as paradise, but then gives them hell once they pass away.

God will never make a way if someone doesnt get up off there ass to do something. They can say that all they want, but even God knows he just isnt going to put $1,000,000 in there bank account for them sitting on there butt and doing nothing. But if you get up and do something in Gods name and try to do something, then of course you will get somewhere. It may take some time or may not take anytime. For some people having God in there mind and trying to get somewhere makes things much easier and it makes it seem like it is really working. It helps keep you calm and keeps pushing you.

God also puts everyone through tests. And these are wordly tests. Like god makes people struggle hard to get where they want to. He wants to find out if this child of mine will keep on striving using me to get where he wants, or will he give up on me and just do it on his own. If you pass the test, then you will be successful.

I dont write all this just because I was told this. I have been through it myself. I have went from having $1,000 of dollars to maybe $500 with a family, house, bills, cars, etc.. and not once did I give up on God, I strived hard, but every step of the way I always made sure I came back and gave praise to God...and now everything is GREAT.

Its a long and sometimes hard to explain question, but I hope in some way I explained something..