Quote Originally Posted by Jerra
Be careful...check up on her when you can...but don't let her know about it. It will make you feel better to know that she isn't doing shit she shouldn't be. Just watch for changes in her behavior and pay attention to what she is doing and with whom. I love my man, but lord knows I have made mistakes that would suggest otherwise. In the end, I get scred when a guy gets too close...my own problem, and I try to run...or push him away. I also have a nasty habit of testing him...to see how he'll react. Be careful, but chances are, based on her past...she may have some trust issues herself. Love her, be good to her...and expect the same.
i have the same bad habit.

but jerra is right.
keep doing what you are doing, don't stoop and become the asshole boyfriend who bullies her and won't let her go out.

if hurting you wasn't enough to make her change, then she never will. So one more chance i say. just don't change what you do is what i'm saying