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  1. 07-04-2007, 12:13 AM #1
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jerra
    We all make mistakes. She didn't fuck him... It happens. If ya'll have been together more than a few months, then I would think about breaking up with her, otherwise, give her a shot...if you love her. People get scared and do stupid shit. trust is important though, and if you can't trust her then it won't work.
    we dont all go fuck the people our friends bring at the movies...hopefully not. why the hell was she there with another guy anyways? be just as fucking mad at him as you are at her man. his fault just as much as hers. and she might as well have let him in her pants, she started the whole act by letting him suck on her neck. who knows, maybe ALL HE DID WAS EAT HER OUT..... is that as bad as fucking? you tell me. same fuckin ballpark. its all the same shit. no matter what it was.
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  2. 07-04-2007, 12:16 AM #2
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    Quote Originally Posted by sullen
    we dont all go fuck the people our friends bring at the movies...hopefully not. why the hell was she there with another guy anyways? be just as fucking mad at him as you are at her man. his fault just as much as hers. and she might as well have let him in her pants, she started the whole act by letting him suck on her neck. who knows, maybe ALL HE DID WAS EAT HER OUT..... is that as bad as fucking? you tell me. same fuckin ballpark. its all the same shit. no matter what it was.
    they made out in a movie theater, stop putting ideas in his head and making him feel like shit. it doesn't matter what happened then, its a matter of if he wants to trust her in the future.

    and don't be mad at the guy, you'll be letting the girl off too easy. your concern is with her not him, he is nothing but an obstacle. And i see no problem with him being there, you should allow your girl to go out friends if they are guys, you should be able to trust them like that. She obviously just slipped up. as i said before your call if you want to handle the stress of thinking she might cheat again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucky SC
    they made out in a movie theater, stop putting ideas in his head and making him feel like shit. it doesn't matter what happened then, its a matter of if he wants to trust her in the future.

    and don't be mad at the guy, you'll be letting the girl off too easy. your concern is with her not him, he is nothing but an obstacle. And i see no problem with him being there, you should allow your girl to go out friends if they are guys, you should be able to trust them like that. She obviously just slipped up. as i said before your call if you want to handle the stress of thinking she might cheat again.
    REPS to you for sure. I am comfortable with letting her go out with guy friends and all no prob other guys have hit on her and all in hte past and shes pushed them away and I don't know why this time it fell through. It was just a slip up I suppose.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brut
    REPS to you for sure. I am comfortable with letting her go out with guy friends and all no prob other guys have hit on her and all in hte past and shes pushed them away and I don't know why this time it fell through. It was just a slip up I suppose.
    Don't make it less of an issue than it is. It is a big deal, and not just a slip up. You have to work through it. Don't try to tell her she can't go out with dudes...that just means you shouldn't be with her. Take it as a compliment that otehr guys hit on your chick.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Brut
    REPS to you for sure. I am comfortable with letting her go out with guy friends and all no prob other guys have hit on her and all in hte past and shes pushed them away and I don't know why this time it fell through. It was just a slip up I suppose.
    There are things you can slip up in a relationship, such as forgetting to call or random shit like that. But making out with another guy? Thats not something you should ever slip on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucky SC
    and don't be mad at the guy, you'll be letting the girl off too easy. your concern is with her not him, he is nothing but an obstacle. And i see no problem with him being there, you should allow your girl to go out friends if they are guys, you should be able to trust them like that. She obviously just slipped up. as i said before your call if you want to handle the stress of thinking she might cheat again.


    Even still man, you're 18...so don't get too caught up. You've got a lot more time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by sullen
    we dont all go fuck the people our friends bring at the movies...hopefully not. why the hell was she there with another guy anyways? be just as fucking mad at him as you are at her man. his fault just as much as hers. and she might as well have let him in her pants, she started the whole act by letting him suck on her neck. who knows, maybe ALL HE DID WAS EAT HER OUT..... is that as bad as fucking? you tell me. same fuckin ballpark. its all the same shit. no matter what it was.
    I'm not saying what she did was ok, but I do think that if they love one another he should be able to give her another chance.

    Was there alcohol involved?
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