Relationship advice AGAIN

[VooDooXII]

and don't be mad at the guy, you'll be letting the girl off too easy. your concern is with her not him, he is nothing but an obstacle. And i see no problem with him being there, you should allow your girl to go out friends if they are guys, you should be able to trust them like that. She obviously just slipped up. as i said before your call if you want to handle the stress of thinking she might cheat again.

Even still man, you're 18...so don't get too caught up. You've got a lot more time.

[Lucky DAWG]

oh trust me voodoo

i'm not the relationship type.
but i like to think i have a good head on my shoulders about it. friends come to me for advice all the time.

i have an issue with pushing girls away when they get too close.

[Tracy]

I don't care if she told you. Break up with her. I have never thought of cheating on any of the men I have been with...no matter how long we were together. It's called character Some people have good and some people have bad. IMO cheating isn't just a mistake...it's a matter of character.

[VooDooXII]

oh trust me voodoo

i'm not the relationship type.
but i like to think i have a good head on my shoulders about it. friends come to me for advice all the time.

i have an issue with pushing girls away when they get too close.

I meant Brut's still 18...but yea, you're right on about the guy friends.

[Lucky DAWG]

I meant Brut's still 18...but yea, you're right on about the guy friends.

oh shit i thought u were talking to me.

i got the impression brut was in his twenties
no idea why, everyone seems to be older then me on here so i guess i assume it now lol.

[Brut]

Damn y'all post way to fuckin fast for me to respond. I go pee and then this thread like 3 pages. What I want to do is this I am gonna give her a 2nd chance and all and trust her and if she makes the same mistake and all again I am gone no questions asked gone. I love her a lot which is a extremely rare thing for me because of my past. My brother which commit suicide only July 4, 1995 in front of me when I was 6. He killed himself because his gf cheated on him and she left him and all. Before he died he told me don't let love happen to you like this. SO I try my best not to get close to girls and all and stay away from falling in love. But for some reason I did fall in love with this girl

[Lucky DAWG]

Damn y'all post way to fuckin fast for me to respond. I go pee and then this thread like 3 pages. What I want to do is this I am gonna give her a 2nd chance and all and trust her and if she makes the same mistake and all again I am gone no questions asked gone. I love her a lot which is a extremely rare thing for me because of my past. My brother which commit suicide only July 4, 1995 in front of me when I was 6. He killed himself because his gf cheated on him and she left him and all. Before he died he told me don't let love happen to you like this. SO I try my best not to get close to girls and all and stay away from falling in love. But for some reason I did fall in love with this girl

dang dude, i really feel for ya.
and i respect your decision and wish you the best of it.

+reps to you for as long as i can
fill me in on how it goes, and send one her friends to my door for the advice

[Tracy]

/thread now

[blackshine007]

I don't care if she told you. Break up with her. I have never thought of cheating on any of the men I have been with...no matter how long we were together. It's called character Some people have good and some people have bad. IMO cheating isn't just a mistake...it's a matter of character.

Brut, take advice from this woman. This is a GREAT POST!!! Not someone who don't know a damn thing about relations.

[Jerra]

Good luck.

[Jerra]

I agree with Tracy, it is a matter of character...but this guy needs to know its over. It will take her doing it again for him to let her go.

[Brut]

Thanks to everyone that posted advice and everything +2 for everyone. Don't think I never took anyone post into thought I did I sat and read each one of em through and thought about them. I will keep y'all posted I made my decision but feel free to keep saying what you would do and all just because I made my decision already.

[VooDooXII]

Damn y'all post way to fuckin fast for me to respond. I go pee and then this thread like 3 pages. What I want to do is this I am gonna give her a 2nd chance and all and trust her and if she makes the same mistake and all again I am gone no questions asked gone. I love her a lot which is a extremely rare thing for me because of my past. My brother which commit suicide only July 4, 1995 in front of me when I was 6. He killed himself because his gf cheated on him and she left him and all. Before he died he told me don't let love happen to you like this. SO I try my best not to get close to girls and all and stay away from falling in love. But for some reason I did fall in love with this girl

Aw man...now I know why that tied in. I thought it was just the fact that the date was coming up. Stuff like that makes it hard to give the best advise, since it's such a circumstance.

That said, I don't know what I'd personally do there...because it's just that hard for me to relate. As long as you feel you did the right thing...then

Good luck man!

[Jerra]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Brut again.

[2.0civic]

it takes two people to make out. Since this isnt your first thread about her, im willing to bet shes a whore.

Drop her ass while you can.if she cant go see a movie with "friends" without coming home with a mark, theres a problem..theres PLENTY of pussy out there....

Good luck

[VooDooXII]

it takes two people to make out. Since this isnt your first thread about her, im willing to bet shes a whore.

Drop her ass while you can.if she cant go see a movie with "friends" without coming home with a mark, theres a problem..theres PLENTY of pussy out there....

Good luck

READ!

[2.0civic]

nah im too lazy lol. If it hurts though and you stay with her, fuck her in the ass next time then when she asks why be like "thats what you made me feel like"

Hell IDK what the fuck im saying...dating 4 hoes at one time FTW

[blackshine007]

READ!

lolz

[Hektik]

Be careful...check up on her when you can...but don't let her know about it. It will make you feel better to know that she isn't doing shit she shouldn't be. Just watch for changes in her behavior and pay attention to what she is doing and with whom.

Why would anyone want to live like this..... If you cant completely 100% trust who you are with then why spend your life chasing them around hiding behind corners and shadows trying to catch them in the wrong... yea sure there are moments when that trust might be questioned, but not to the point where you would have to go through their email and shit....



either way G/L to you and your relationship...

[sullen]

i think you should be just as pissed at the dude. i mean, if he knew she was taken, then why the hell was he messing around with her? and for her, she still fucking did it. does she deserve another chance? i dunno. if you only been going out with her for like 6 months....shitty call man. my girlfriend and i are coming up on the 3 year mark in like 2 months....never done anything to lose trust, nor has she. thats what the caring is about, not just saying you care and slide around with other people...period. she fucking did it, so did he. either teach her the lesson, or get the fuck rid of her.

[2.0civic]

i just read the first page...the "give her a shot again shit cause she was nervous" Thats BS...Sheknew it wasnt you. Ask her how his dick tasted.

Dating 4 girls at one time and no committment FTW!

Sorry if that sounded assholeish...Come out with me and my buddys one night and we'll show you how to swing it

[VooDooXII]

Hell IDK what the fuck im saying...dating 4 hoes at one time FTW

Four naggin bitches FTL!

[2.0civic]

nah they dont nag lol. i dont put up with that shit.

[2.0civic]

Not really sure where to post this at. So Mods if you have a better place move it there be my guest.Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for 1 year and 9 months now. Everything has gone great so far nothing bad. 6 months prior her going out with me she had broken up with her ex Chris. She loved him a whole lot and she broke up with him because she found out that he had cheated on her with another girl and they were having sex. Well they brake up and he moves away to Washington I believe. Shes been going out with me for this while and she knows and I know I love her more than anything in the world. I've never gone out with a girl before and had the feelings I have for her. I'd do literally anything for her. But now her ex Chris is talking to her and today she told me he said, "that he really loves her and he wants to get back with her". The only reason he cheated on her was because he was heartbroken and he wanted to be with someone or some BS excuse like that. She told him that shes going out with me and that I care about her a whole lot and that I'm not in the relationship just for sex and all. She stopped talking to him then and then she is crying and everything and she says her heart hurts and that shes confused and all now. She said she won't go back out with him because of what he did to her. When she told me what he said my heart dropped and I felt empty. Like my heart was ripped out and threw it away. I started to get really cold and I was nervous and scared. What I want to know is what should I do now? I really love her and I do not want to break up with her. Whats everyones 2 cents about this? Please no flaming I'd really appreciate it if no one would do that. Thanks

i pulled this from your old thread..dont take this the wrong way but god damn. Is she retarded? she apparently gets confused from anything with a penis.

Find an older girl (24-30). They know what THEY want and dont want and dont play games with shit.If you gave me her info where i could "get to know her" i would have her ass up somewhere in under a week, videotape it, then you could use it against her permanently..


Is she that good in bed you want to stick with it?

[VooDooXII]

nah they dont nag lol. i dont put up with that shit.

FTW then...

By the way...sharing is caring, it can be fun.

[GSRteg®]

Ok, first def that she lost your trust and it might take time to get it back.
Second, forgive you can forget (never you can never forget) that thought will be with you till the day you die of what she did.
Third, It doesnt mean she loves u bc she told you.... She might have felt bad bro? She also might think (oh, he loves me hell take me back no matter what I do?)

Look if I was in your shoes ill let her go. Bro there is so many women out there better and trust worthy.... btw im not saying she not bc I dont really know her man.

Damn I sure don't have good luck with relationships now do I? lol Ok well this time this is what happened. Sunday (july 1) I was at work and
she was with some friends at the movies. Well while she was at the movies the guy with her made a move and ended up making out with her and gave her a hickey. She just now told me today all her friends said don't tell me because I might break up with her. Well she told me and I was crushed, I was real hurt and all and upset. I didn't break up with her I was kinda glad she had told me too. I knew something was wrong and cause on Sunday I got sick and all I have bronchitis as of right now, the weather has been shit tomorrow is the day that my older brother commit suicide (july 4) and all. So you could say July is the greatest month for me. My girlfriend says she loves me still with all her heart and all and I still love her but she has lost a lot of my trust from doing that. I asked one friend what his opinion was and what he would do in my position he said forgive and forget he said she told you right? and I said yes and then that means she loves you and all. Well I want some of yall's opinions what would you do if you were in my position or what is some advice you would give me? Thanks in advance No flaming me and all please thanks

[2.0civic]

Stop doing shit for her and tell her to let the other guy play the boyfriend role and that you are tired of being the number 2 guy in her life

[aznanhnhan86]

id say break up! b/c if she loves u then she would think about u before she went along kissing the guy.

[Black R]

fuck that shit.

i'll tell you straight up, once a whore always a whore.

here's how you'll feel better, fuck her best friend and don't wash your dick - then later that same day, get her to suck it telling you how good it tastes. win/ win. i leave it up to you whether or not you want to tell her where your dick has been.....

[keevo54]

If you dont break up now she will probably fuck him the next time she is near him. A cheater is always going to be a cheater with very few exceptions

[VooDooXII]

Fuckers! You are reading not?

[tony]

You take her back and basically there was no consequences for her actions.. plus you'll be a sucker. Of course she was going to tell you about it, she had a damn hicky on her (which having a hicky on your girl from another dude is just nasty) Man the more I think about it the more pissed I get about it, c'mon dude no woman will respect you when you cannot put your foot down. If you love her kick her to the curb, she'll do one of two things.. run back to him or put forth an honest effort to make things right with you.. if she chooses the latter do NOT be quick to forgive.

If the thing with your brother still effects the way you are toward women or how you deal with yourself then consider counseling.. seriously.

[quickdodge®]

why would u go to a club to look for a nice girl to date?

You don't. Later, QD.

[Maniaç]

you're fucking 18 years old! why the fuck are you tripping over some slut? move on and continue to give the bitches that "cack", yes i said "cack"..

stop acting like a bitch and grow some balls...

ps; sorry about your bro.

[ueyedgr8tness]

*date doctor steps in* I rly say dump her cause it seems like to me that u have a very young gf cause most women that have value worth keeping wouldnt do some bs in a theater...*my thoughts after all why not just go back to the house and fuck???* No that what sets young girls from older women>Girls play around<women fuck around> ..Thats the differents. So i say go find u a older women just like some of the other guy's are saying and leave this tramp alone



And sry to hear about your bro man i just went to my cousins funeral yesterday and he was like my big brother So i feel u

[CRXchic19]

thats crap - take advise from a woman, the only reason she told you about what happened is because she felt GUILTY and she had to fess up. any girl who REALLY cared about you would not do that to you.

you trusted her enough to go out will her friends and guys without you, and look how she repaid you. would you ever do that to her? its a complete lack of respect. ok everyone "makes mistakes" but a mistake would have been that she kissed him, once, then told you about it, not a full-on makeout session.

for all you really know she could have already slept with him, and you would never have known the difference because now she feels better that she "told you what happened"

i dont know all of the details of yalls relationship, but i know damn well that if my bf of 2 years ever pulled that, he would be gone in a heartbeat, and if i ever did that to him, i would fully expect him to dump me. there are some lines you just should not cross in any relationship, she doesnt really love you man, she is just used to having you around.

[00CelicaGT]

Damn I sure don't have good luck with relationships now do I? lol Ok well this time this is what happened. Sunday (july 1) I was at work and she was with some friends at the movies. Well while she was at the movies the guy with her made a move and ended up making out with her and gave her a hickey. She just now told me today all her friends said don't tell me because I might break up with her. Well she told me and I was crushed, I was real hurt and all and upset. I didn't break up with her I was kinda glad she had told me too. I knew something was wrong and cause on Sunday I got sick and all I have bronchitis as of right now, the weather has been shit tomorrow is the day that my older brother commit suicide (july 4) and all. So you could say July is the greatest month for me. My girlfriend says she loves me still with all her heart and all and I still love her but she has lost a lot of my trust from doing that. I asked one friend what his opinion was and what he would do in my position he said forgive and forget he said she told you right? and I said yes and then that means she loves you and all. Well I want some of yall's opinions what would you do if you were in my position or what is some advice you would give me? Thanks in advance No flaming me and all please thanks

first off if u ever need any advice u shouldn't ask anyone on here. and second i would break up wit her because if she cheats once she will cheat twice. third dont believe that she still loves u cuz that is some bullshit, if she still loved u she have never made out wit another guy. whats even worse is that she almost wasn't going to tell u, so that should be a sign right there that there is no love on her end of the relationship. but thats just my advice

long story short breake up wit her and find someone better, cuz there is someone for everyone. (even fat people)

[Lizbiz101]

You can't get a hickey on accedent. She let that happen. I'd be pissed too. If she wanted one so bad you could have given her a damn hickey. Well at least she knows your pissed and she hurt you. If the love is there, you can work anything out. Just let her know if it happens again, you won't be sticking around, a person can only take so much.

[ShooterMcGavin]

made out? that's it? young grasshoppa u have much to learn

[Elbow]

I would let it slide once, ONE other mistake leave her she wont change if she does it again.