:goodjob:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucky SC
Even still man, you're 18...so don't get too caught up. You've got a lot more time.
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:goodjob:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucky SC
Even still man, you're 18...so don't get too caught up. You've got a lot more time.
oh trust me voodoo
i'm not the relationship type.
but i like to think i have a good head on my shoulders about it. friends come to me for advice all the time.
i have an issue with pushing girls away when they get too close.
I don't care if she told you. Break up with her. I have never thought of cheating on any of the men I have been with...no matter how long we were together. It's called character ;) Some people have good and some people have bad. IMO cheating isn't just a mistake...it's a matter of character.
I meant Brut's still 18...but yea, you're right on about the guy friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucky SC
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Originally Posted by VooDooXII
oh shit i thought u were talking to me.
i got the impression brut was in his twenties
no idea why, everyone seems to be older then me on here so i guess i assume it now lol.
Damn y'all post way to fuckin fast for me to respond. I go pee and then this thread like 3 pages. What I want to do is this I am gonna give her a 2nd chance and all and trust her and if she makes the same mistake and all again I am gone no questions asked gone. I love her a lot which is a extremely rare thing for me because of my past. My brother which commit suicide only July 4, 1995 in front of me when I was 6. He killed himself because his gf cheated on him and she left him and all. Before he died he told me don't let love happen to you like this. SO I try my best not to get close to girls and all and stay away from falling in love. But for some reason I did fall in love with this girl
dang dude, i really feel for ya.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brut
and i respect your decision and wish you the best of it.
+reps to you for as long as i can :goodjob:
fill me in on how it goes, and send one her friends to my door for the advice :lmfao:
/thread now
Brut, take advice from this woman. This is a GREAT POST!!! Not someone who don't know a damn thing about relations.Quote:
Originally Posted by tracy
Good luck.
I agree with Tracy, it is a matter of character...but this guy needs to know its over. It will take her doing it again for him to let her go.
Thanks to everyone that posted advice and everything +2 for everyone. Don't think I never took anyone post into thought I did I sat and read each one of em through and thought about them. I will keep y'all posted I made my decision but feel free to keep saying what you would do and all just because I made my decision already.
:no: Aw man...now I know why that tied in. I thought it was just the fact that the date was coming up. Stuff like that makes it hard to give the best advise, since it's such a circumstance.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brut
That said, I don't know what I'd personally do there...because it's just that hard for me to relate. As long as you feel you did the right thing...then :goodjob:
Good luck man!
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Brut again.
it takes two people to make out. Since this isnt your first thread about her, im willing to bet shes a whore.
Drop her ass while you can.if she cant go see a movie with "friends" without coming home with a mark, theres a problem..theres PLENTY of pussy out there....
Good luck
READ!Quote:
Originally Posted by Steveo
nah im too lazy lol. If it hurts though and you stay with her, fuck her in the ass next time then when she asks why be like "thats what you made me feel like"
Hell IDK what the fuck im saying...dating 4 hoes at one time FTW
lolzQuote:
Originally Posted by VooDooXII
Why would anyone want to live like this..... If you cant completely 100% trust who you are with then why spend your life chasing them around hiding behind corners and shadows trying to catch them in the wrong... yea sure there are moments when that trust might be questioned, but not to the point where you would have to go through their email and shit....Quote:
Originally Posted by Jerra
either way G/L to you and your relationship...
i think you should be just as pissed at the dude. i mean, if he knew she was taken, then why the hell was he messing around with her? and for her, she still fucking did it. does she deserve another chance? i dunno. if you only been going out with her for like 6 months....shitty call man. my girlfriend and i are coming up on the 3 year mark in like 2 months....never done anything to lose trust, nor has she. thats what the caring is about, not just saying you care and slide around with other people...period. she fucking did it, so did he. either teach her the lesson, or get the fuck rid of her.
i just read the first page...the "give her a shot again shit cause she was nervous" Thats BS...Sheknew it wasnt you. Ask her how his dick tasted.
Dating 4 girls at one time and no committment FTW!
Sorry if that sounded assholeish...Come out with me and my buddys one night and we'll show you how to swing it
:lmfao: :no: Four naggin bitches FTL!Quote:
Originally Posted by Steveo
nah they dont nag lol. i dont put up with that shit.
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Originally Posted by Brut
i pulled this from your old thread..dont take this the wrong way but god damn. Is she retarded? she apparently gets confused from anything with a penis.
Find an older girl (24-30). They know what THEY want and dont want and dont play games with shit.If you gave me her info where i could "get to know her" i would have her ass up somewhere in under a week, videotape it, then you could use it against her permanently..
Is she that good in bed you want to stick with it?
FTW then...Quote:
Originally Posted by Steveo
By the way...sharing is caring, it can be fun.
Ok, first def that she lost your trust and it might take time to get it back. :thinking:
Second, forgive you can forget (never you can never forget) that thought will be with you till the day you die of what she did.
Third, It doesnt mean she loves u bc she told you.... She might have felt bad bro? She also might think (oh, he loves me hell take me back no matter what I do?)
Look if I was in your shoes ill let her go. Bro there is so many women out there better and trust worthy.... btw im not saying she not bc I dont really know her man.
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Originally Posted by Brut
Stop doing shit for her and tell her to let the other guy play the boyfriend role and that you are tired of being the number 2 guy in her life
id say break up! b/c if she loves u then she would think about u before she went along kissing the guy.
fuck that shit.
i'll tell you straight up, once a whore always a whore.
here's how you'll feel better, fuck her best friend and don't wash your dick - then later that same day, get her to suck it telling you how good it tastes. win/ win. i leave it up to you whether or not you want to tell her where your dick has been.....
If you dont break up now she will probably fuck him the next time she is near him. A cheater is always going to be a cheater with very few exceptions
Fuckers! You are reading not?
You take her back and basically there was no consequences for her actions.. plus you'll be a sucker. Of course she was going to tell you about it, she had a damn hicky on her (which having a hicky on your girl from another dude is just nasty) Man the more I think about it the more pissed I get about it, c'mon dude no woman will respect you when you cannot put your foot down. If you love her kick her to the curb, she'll do one of two things.. run back to him or put forth an honest effort to make things right with you.. if she chooses the latter do NOT be quick to forgive.
If the thing with your brother still effects the way you are toward women or how you deal with yourself then consider counseling.. seriously.
You don't. Later, QD.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lucky SC
you're fucking 18 years old! why the fuck are you tripping over some slut? move on and continue to give the bitches that "cack", yes i said "cack"..
stop acting like a bitch and grow some balls...
ps; sorry about your bro.
:ninja: *date doctor steps in* I rly say dump her cause it seems like to me that u have a very young gf cause most women that have value worth keeping wouldnt do some bs in a theater...*my thoughts after all why not just go back to the house and fuck???* No that what sets young girls from older women>Girls play around<women fuck around> ..Thats the differents. So i say go find u a older women just like some of the other guy's are saying and leave this tramp alone:goodjob:
And sry to hear about your bro man i just went to my cousins funeral yesterday and he was like my big brother So i feel u:(
thats crap - take advise from a woman, the only reason she told you about what happened is because she felt GUILTY and she had to fess up. any girl who REALLY cared about you would not do that to you.
you trusted her enough to go out will her friends and guys without you, and look how she repaid you. would you ever do that to her? its a complete lack of respect. ok everyone "makes mistakes" but a mistake would have been that she kissed him, once, then told you about it, not a full-on makeout session.
for all you really know she could have already slept with him, and you would never have known the difference because now she feels better that she "told you what happened"
i dont know all of the details of yalls relationship, but i know damn well that if my bf of 2 years ever pulled that, he would be gone in a heartbeat, and if i ever did that to him, i would fully expect him to dump me. there are some lines you just should not cross in any relationship, she doesnt really love you man, she is just used to having you around.
first off if u ever need any advice u shouldn't ask anyone on here. and second i would break up wit her because if she cheats once she will cheat twice. third dont believe that she still loves u cuz that is some bullshit, if she still loved u she have never made out wit another guy. whats even worse is that she almost wasn't going to tell u, so that should be a sign right there that there is no love on her end of the relationship. but thats just my adviceQuote:
Originally Posted by Brut
long story short breake up wit her and find someone better, cuz there is someone for everyone. (even fat people:lmfao:)
You can't get a hickey on accedent. She let that happen. I'd be pissed too. If she wanted one so bad you could have given her a damn hickey. Well at least she knows your pissed and she hurt you. If the love is there, you can work anything out. Just let her know if it happens again, you won't be sticking around, a person can only take so much.
made out? that's it? young grasshoppa u have much to learn :yes:
I would let it slide once, ONE other mistake leave her she wont change if she does it again.