Nice Guys Finish Last...

[Jaimecbr900]

i agree, he put on a phasod(sp?), he wasnt real, you HAVE to find somebody thats real, we all thought he was, but obviously we got punk'd too by thinkin that

Facade.....

I was actually referring to the fact that the question actually sounds more rhetorical than anything else because a good guy the screws up is actually a bad guy, so he's no different than any other bad guy.....see how the tree fell in the woods????

In other words.....tell us the whole damn story and we will be glad to give you worthless and non-professional advice......

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Facade.....

I was actually referring to the fact that the question actually sounds more rhetorical than anything else because a good guy the screws up is actually a bad guy, so he's no different than any other bad guy.....see how the tree fell in the woods????

In other words.....tell us the whole damn story and we will be glad to give you worthless and non-professional advice......

OK...Here goes...From the beginning....

In June, this guy that I knew from elementary, middle, and high school sent me a note thru Myspace the day I was closing my account down. Well b/c I responded I left the acct open and we became pen pals. After about a month of just typing, we started to talk on the phone, which lead to us meeting in person. Now mind you, we "knew" of each other from school but never met...I was the "popular" girl and he was in band??? We hung out a couple of times and I could tell that feelings were being caught and b/c I knew that this was happening, I ran away from him...Not literally, just avoided him at all cost...I kept "missing" his calls or "not getting" his texts...

Fast Forward-----> My Birthday party in Nov.
I decided that I would invite him to my b-day b/c I figured the more the merrier...I ignored him all night except for when I gave him a drunken lapdance...~sigh~ (lol @ me under the influence) at the end of the night he comes up to me and hugs me and says, "I know you wont remember a lot of things from tonight but i hope you remember me being here." (kissed me on my forehead and he left.)

That next weekend, my friends (that were pulling for this guy) suggest going to Lake Lanier to go see the lights and they invite him....I dont want to go...Plans change and we end up at the movies...While there I have a slight outburst correcting his thought that this was a date...I decide to scream out the fact that, "THIS IS NOT A DATE!!!" To which he responds by giving me his jacket b/c I was shaking...

I dont see him for a while...Until...Yep, my holiday party...He got there extra early and sat on the couch...We didnt talk much in the beginning but by the middle of the night we were in my room talking all night on my bed. He was second to last to leave at 5am...

Christmas day my friends took me to his house to say hi and Merry Christmas...We were there for a while. Then the Lights at Lake Lanier came up again...This time i was ok with going with him...We went and cuddled and talked and held hands and drank hot chocolate and hugged....When we got dropped off at my apartment I asked him to come in...He did. We later went to Waffle House with my roomie and her man...We hugged outside in the cold. Came back to my apt where we talked until 4am. In this convo we discussed our "like" for each other....

The next weekend we went to Fernbank during the day and watched 2 movies at night, I dropped him off at his house at 3am.

And honestly I cant remember much after that one...Ummm....Which brings us to Saturday.

I went to go drop off a gift to him and maybe stay for about 30 minutes...He asked me to stay and watch Toy Story 1 and 2 with him and his son....I did..The entire night he texted...THE ENTIRE NIGHT....I wanted to leave...Then at one point in the night he says," Hold on brb, a friend from work wants to see me." I kinda look at him...Like uhhh..ok? When he comes back in he mentions it was a girl....I was like "hmm...I didnt ask...." I left at the end of the movie.

When I got home I cried with my bestfriends....Once again I have fallen into the "bestfriend" mode...SO I quit! FUCK THAT!

Well my problem is.....How the fuck can you go from feeling one thing to another and not mention it to me? I mean, dont feed me pretty little thoughts and then be just as bad as the assholes I normally date....

Fuck a nice guy....If it owns a penis it is the same thing...