Nice Guys Finish Last...
Everybody has heard this saying right? So what is it when the Nice Guy fucks up? I get yelled at all the time for going after the "assholes, dicks, and pussies," but at least with them I know what I am getting into....
What the fuck am I supposed to do when it is the guy that everyone is pulling for that fucks up?
**No more relationship section so I posted here....
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So everyone defends the good guy huh? Well damn...
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This is a "if a tree falls in the woods and noone's around, does it make a sound?" kinda question.
If the "good" guy screws up......doesn't that really make him "bad"????
So what's the question then?????
i agree, he put on a phasod(sp?), he wasnt real, you HAVE to find somebody thats real, we all thought he was, but obviously we got punk'd too by thinkin thatOriginally Posted by Jaimecbr900
This is a "if a tree falls in the woods and noone's around, does it make a sound?" kinda question.
If the "good" guy screws up......doesn't that really make him "bad"????
So what's the question then?????
Facade.....
I was actually referring to the fact that the question actually sounds more rhetorical than anything else because a good guy the screws up is actually a bad guy, so he's no different than any other bad guy.....see how the tree fell in the woods????
In other words.....tell us the whole damn story and we will be glad to give you worthless and non-professional advice......
OK...Here goes...From the beginning....Facade.....
I was actually referring to the fact that the question actually sounds more rhetorical than anything else because a good guy the screws up is actually a bad guy, so he's no different than any other bad guy.....see how the tree fell in the woods????
In other words.....tell us the whole damn story and we will be glad to give you worthless and non-professional advice......
In June, this guy that I knew from elementary, middle, and high school sent me a note thru Myspace the day I was closing my account down. Well b/c I responded I left the acct open and we became pen pals. After about a month of just typing, we started to talk on the phone, which lead to us meeting in person. Now mind you, we "knew" of each other from school but never met...I was the "popular" girl and he wasin band??? We hung out a couple of times and I could tell that feelings were being caught and b/c I knew that this was happening, I ran away from him...Not literally, just avoided him at all cost...I kept "missing" his calls or "not getting" his texts...
Fast Forward-----> My Birthday party in Nov.
I decided that I would invite him to my b-day b/c I figured the more the merrier...I ignored him all night except for when I gave him a drunken lapdance...~sigh~ (lol @ me under the influence) at the end of the night he comes up to me and hugs me and says, "I know you wont remember a lot of things from tonight but i hope you remember me being here." (kissed me on my forehead and he left.)
That next weekend, my friends (that were pulling for this guy) suggest going to Lake Lanier to go see the lights and they invite him....I dont want to go...Plans change and we end up at the movies...While there I have a slight outburst correcting his thought that this was a date...I decide to scream out the fact that, "THIS IS NOT A DATE!!!" To which he responds by giving me his jacket b/c I was shaking...
I dont see him for a while...Until...Yep, my holiday party...He got there extra early and sat on the couch...We didnt talk much in the beginning but by the middle of the night we were in my room talking all night on my bed. He was second to last to leave at 5am...
Christmas day my friends took me to his house to say hi and Merry Christmas...We were there for a while. Then the Lights at Lake Lanier came up again...This time i was ok with going with him...We went and cuddled and talked and held hands and drank hot chocolate and hugged....When we got dropped off at my apartment I asked him to come in...He did. We later went to Waffle House with my roomie and her man...We hugged outside in the cold. Came back to my apt where we talked until 4am. In this convo we discussed our "like" for each other....
The next weekend we went to Fernbank during the day and watched 2 movies at night, I dropped him off at his house at 3am.
And honestly I cant remember much after that one...Ummm....Which brings us to Saturday.
I went to go drop off a gift to him and maybe stay for about 30 minutes...He asked me to stay and watch Toy Story 1 and 2 with him and his son....I did..The entire night he texted...THE ENTIRE NIGHT....I wanted to leave...Then at one point in the night he says," Hold on brb, a friend from work wants to see me." I kinda look at him...Like uhhh..ok? When he comes back in he mentions it was a girl....I was like "hmm...I didnt ask...." I left at the end of the movie.
When I got home I cried with my bestfriends....Once again I have fallen into the "bestfriend" mode...SO I quit! FUCK THAT!
Well my problem is.....How the fuck can you go from feeling one thing to another and not mention it to me? I mean, dont feed me pretty little thoughts and then be just as bad as the assholes I normally date....
Fuck a nice guy....If it owns a penis it is the same thing...
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Ok well see this is the thing...What he did was done in good taste, it is just the fact that I guess I held him at a higher level than most guys and therefore allowed myself to feel inferior to him...Then he goes and pulls a move that I would normally expect from an "asshole." Which or course leaves me confused as hell. For those that know me I didnt want to fall for this guy from the beginning....And now I am like tha fuck happened?This is a "if a tree falls in the woods and noone's around, does it make a sound?" kinda question.
If the "good" guy screws up......doesn't that really make him "bad"????
So what's the question then?????
BeFF <beef>
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i pm'd u back...chk ur pms jose
what did the guy do? what happened??
hate to hear this ma as you really do deserve the best. damn, buddy played a good game for a while. care to share how or why he blew his cover???
Let's just say that he wasnt just my "nice guy."
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I don't try to be a "nice guy" or a "bad boy". I just be ME and do what I do. if she perceves(sp) that as a "nice guy" or "bad boy" that good for her, but if she likes ME for the REAL ME than GREAT for us...I hope that helps or makes sense.Everybody has heard this saying right? So what is it when the Nice Guy fucks up? I get yelled at all the time for going after the "assholes, dicks, and pussies," but at least with them I know what I am getting into....
What the fuck am I supposed to do when it is the guy that everyone is pulling for that fucks up?
**No more relationship section so I posted here....
it makes sense, but d00d is a fake, he made it seem one way when it was another...UNLESS jose is wildin again
*still waiting for response*
Nah...There was emotional playing going on....
I wont stop hanging out with him, but if I can choose not to, I wont.
I just see it as payback being a bitch again...
I didnt like him, avoided him, then became his friend again....Liked him and now I am the one chasing...One problem....I dont chase...At least not anymore...
He played a good game though.
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pm me details woman
what kind of emotional game? u have us in a grey area right now
what's up jose, u allright gurl??
ehh...I quit with dicks....I think i am gonna start licking carpet...
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lol well I'm sorry to hear about all this jose, man that sucks.
lookin out for ur own interest sum bish
It's all good... You live, you learn...
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true dat.:boobies:
JOHN TUCKER MUST DIE!!!!!!!!
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WTF is a John Tucker???? Can I buy it at Walmart? Target maybe? Does it come in different shapes and colors? If not then tell me wtf that is.....Or who....I guess
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lol its a movie with 4 hot girls that all get played at the same time by this guy in high school, so the girls all get even with him....i dont know, the stories seem similar, if not, FUCK YOU.
my girl made me watch it last night because she didnt wanna watch another movie of mine cause i watch some fucked up movies. Shes like those too, just not all the time.
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YEah umm...I watched Requiem of a Dream..Ummm...I dunno anything about a John Tucker....Sounds cute??
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I understand completely.........
Oh wait no..The best part was reading his blog after having these weird feelings since Saturday night and reading "Someone there has caught my eye." (talking about his job) Which duh!!! Has to be the same person that stopped by on Saturday while I was there....Amazing...Simply amazing....You cannot have your cake and eat it too!!! IT is impossible!!!! (unless u live alone and then you can eat your own cake...)
BeFF <beef>
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if i leg hump would it make u feel better?
It's all good babe...Like I said...great guy..Just not the one for me.
if i leg hump would it make u feel better?
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I assumed something similar...despite contrary beliefs, nice guys don`t always finish last. they sometimes play the game abit better than others. however, true colors always shine through sooner or later.
YES!!! That is exactly what I was thinking...I dont think there is a such thing as a nice guy or a bad guy...Like honestly..I think that someone's nice guy is the last person's asshole...See what I mean? Fuck a title....
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jose..tell me if im wrong but you all havent/didnt obtain the gf/bf status yet am i right?
Nope but we discussed being exclusive...His family refers to me as "la novia." The girlfriend...But no...No we hadn't....
That is the thing...I am not upset at him....Not once have I said I hold anything against him...I would just rather not be around him...B/c I allowed myself to catch feelings....REMEMBER JOSELYN doesnt fuck with emotions...Apparently emotions fuck me...
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what did he say when yall 'discussed being exclusive?' i mean it depends on what he said when yall talked about that. IMO(referring to last post) dude was just plain wrong
He asked me if I thought it was something that might happen..I told him that b/c of my feelings, "yes." BUT..I also told him that I dont rush into relationships, which I thought he agreed with, and according to the comment he left me yesterday on my blog....He did/does....But Right now i am getting the whole "I am saying one thing but doing another" vibe from him...
BeFF <beef>
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have u asked him about the comment 'this is my friend' that he made?
When?
BeFF <beef>
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after he made that comment, have u ever asked him about it since he said it?
its something u should know WHY he called u just a friend
Babe, I am sorry I am lost...Where did I put that he called me just a friend...
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