Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
I dunno I think I agree with u...IMO, then again my view on relationships is a lil' ....I think if the guy had a bad relationship in the past and bought a ring that was supposed to symbolize his love for a significant other but it didnt work out and he kept the ring then the symbology of the ring isnt b/w him and the ex its b/w him and the ring, that is a sign of his affection for a particular person...Especially if he keeps it...If he finds someone else that is "worthy" of this ring (not the rings history) then why not re-gift. Fuck it!

I can understand the girls getting upset b/c we (as females)*generalization* have a tendancy to compare ourselves to the ex's and this being the case see it as "I am not good enough to get a better ring than the one he gave "that bitch," so he doesnt love me, he is cheap, .....

Shit give me a ring!!! I'll take it...It means u love me? Shit whatever...Lub u too!

VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY well said. Whats the point of even keeping the ring? If the love is no longer there then the ring should be either. But holding on to it could also mean that he is holding on to the past. Now I could be wrong but thats how I was brought up. Let things go and start a new! But some people just don't get it. Cheap, yes. Holding on to something thats not there anymore, retarded.