+25 thank you. women should be happy there is someone that wants to spend his every waking moment w/ you.... i would love to know the % of people in this topic who are or have been married? getting to that step is larger then any fucking ring or symbol of affection. its the words behind the action that the girl will remember forever...Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
I dunno I think I agree with u...IMO, then again my view on relationships is a lil'....I think if the guy had a bad relationship in the past and bought a ring that was supposed to symbolize his love for a significant other but it didnt work out and he kept the ring then the symbology of the ring isnt b/w him and the ex its b/w him and the ring, that is a sign of his affection for a particular person...Especially if he keeps it...If he finds someone else that is "worthy" of this ring (not the rings history) then why not re-gift. Fuck it!
I can understand the girls getting upset b/c we (as females)*generalization* have a tendancy to compare ourselves to the ex's and this being the case see it as "I am not good enough to get a better ring than the one he gave "that bitch," so he doesnt love me, he is cheap,
Shit give me a ring!!! I'll take it...It means u love me? Shit whatever...Lub u too!
example: you ask my wife about her engagement... the RING will be the last thing she will tell you about. i bought her a build a bear wearing a wedding dress and when you squeeze it says "will you marry me (in my voice)" i did that so for the rest of her life she would know my feelings for her. the ring was nothing more then a symbol of our affection and a material effect for others to know she is spoken for. but every time she is asked "how did he propose..." she just lights up and tells the story.see thats what makes memories not a piece of over priced rock/metal
