just dont want no hand me down draws
just dont want no hand me down draws
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Exactly so why the hell would you do it then?Originally Posted by admin
That right there is lying! I mean you may not be down right lying but you aren't telling the truth either. She may be thinking my man loves me enough to get me a ring not knowing her man just gave her a ring belonged to his ex
THAT'S MY JAM!
if the man bought the ring, its his....he gets to decide who wears the RING he BOUGHT
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Ok, but we are supposed to except some hand me down ring? I mean they both were worn by someone else right?
BUT WHAT ARE THE CHANCES THE RING HAS SKID MARKS ON THEM?
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hahaha my ex told me.. he had no shame.. but like i said i understood he didnt have enough money to get a new one.. but when i put that thing on and had to show people.. including his ex that had it before me (which im sure is an unusual situation) i was embarrassed.. he picked it for someone else.. it was TACKEY
Yep. And she was probably laughing inside thinking how stupid you looked wearing her old ring. Probably called her friends and they had a ball talking about it
exactly.. god i was so naive then.. i had no idea.. it was the worst feeling ever.. i am sooooo thankful that relationship didnt work out.. omg.. now i have the bestest boyfriend in the whole world and im thankful everyday!!
Believe me we all have our moments. Best thing is at least we learn from our mistakesexactly.. god i was so naive then.. i had no idea.. it was the worst feeling ever.. i am sooooo thankful that relationship didnt work out.. omg.. now i have the bestest boyfriend in the whole world and im thankful everyday!!
fuck what other people think!
whose to say it was anythign other then a nice gesture... i think we are all assuming its an engagment ring. could just be a token of appreciation, the other girl gave it back to him, so hey its free shit for the next girl... who cares.
did he offer it to you? no so who cares.
exactly.. we can say all we want.. but it's a ring for her and it's their relationship. And if she is fine with it, then that's all that matters
I would assume its an engagement ring being its on the ring finger.
Just plan and simple recycling ex's shit is a bad choice. It's your decision, but don't expect every female to be ok with it. If she doesn't know she has the right to and if she finds out on her own, she has every right to be mad.
These are just my opinions and how I feel about the situation. Not saying this is how everyone should be, I just wouldn't go for it
well i would say more then likely if he was to do the whole situation over you probably would of gotten that ring anyway if HE truely picked it out. the ring is nothing more then a symbol of feelings. women like to make this out to be a big deal but guess what barbie w/ divorce rates over 50% you should be glad a man wants to even try to settle down.
i'm married but knowing now what i know; i will never remarry... i'm perfectly happy w/ my wife, but this shit is too much work. i'm sitting here thinking about how he must of felt being let down w/ the first girl then trying to get the guts to try again. FUCK THAT SHIT HOOKERS AND HANDJOBS WORKS FINE.
paul, i request you lock this thread
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well honestly if you know the same people, people do talk hense this thread...and honestly its BS that if that truely is his ex's ring, then he is just a fucking jackass...he makes enough money to get another ring...or try and sell the one he had and get a new one.
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agreed... neither justine or collins is here to talk about it
no i will only lock it if collins wants it locked personally i would like to leave it up for all of the guys on here to see exactly how dumb chicks can be.
= prison for most
well i can lock it, i just want paul to do it
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you know if it were something in his family(likes his grandmothers or something) I would be more than happy to wear it...
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I am starting to see that maybe this is just a girl against guy thing. Seems the girls agree that recycling is just wrong and the guys are being asses and saying we are to high maintenance for wanting something of our own.
no i will only lock it if collins wants it locked personally i would like to leave it up for all of the guys on here to see exactly how dumb chicks can be.
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How the hell are we being dumb because we don't want something you gave to some broad?! You guys are being dumb as hell because you are trying to get away with being cheap and unthoughtful!no i will only lock it if collins wants it locked personally i would like to leave it up for all of the guys on here to see exactly how dumb chicks can be.
if its not an engagment ring then there isn't anything to question about.
if it is... i personally wouldn't do it but then again i won't remarry anyway, most women are too fucked up. but i do find it funny the material aspect of it is more important then the meaning of it
That is understandable and different. Heirlums (sp?) are different because they are meant to stay in the "family"
I can tell you this ITS NOT an engagement ring...but either way I still find it tacky...If Win were to give me the ring he bought for his ex, i would shove it up his nose, and make it come out his ass...i just find it as an insult he would give me a ring that belonged to his ex, a ring he chose for someone else...regardless if you say gold digging whores or what not...If you cant go and buy another one even one from a cracker jack box...then you are just plain cheap...
I myself dont have to have the finest things in life to make me happy...I would be happy if Win one morning woke me up and said he stayed up all night drawing on a piece of cardboard "I love you will you marry me" or something like that I would just melt...yes it is the thought that counts, but collins should have better taste then that...any man for that matter....
grand prix.....
chicks are dumb, i'm very happily married. i've done the whole sha-bang already; and if your too busy being wrapped up on where the RING came from, size of stone(s), then you are putting the material aspect in front of the feelings/actions of your loved one. it was never intended to be given 2x and why would he have to spend 2x b/c he gave it to the wrong girl the first time?
thats just dumb. i bet you girls would be pissed if the stones were fake as well?
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if its not an engagment ring then there isn't anything to question about.
if it is... i personally wouldn't do it but then again i won't remarry anyway, most women are too fucked up. but i do find it funny the material aspect of it is more important then the meaning of it
I dunno I think I agree with u...IMO, then again my view on relationships is a lil'....I think if the guy had a bad relationship in the past and bought a ring that was supposed to symbolize his love for a significant other but it didnt work out and he kept the ring then the symbology of the ring isnt b/w him and the ex its b/w him and the ring, that is a sign of his affection for a particular person...Especially if he keeps it...If he finds someone else that is "worthy" of this ring (not the rings history) then why not re-gift. Fuck it!
I can understand the girls getting upset b/c we (as females)*generalization* have a tendancy to compare ourselves to the ex's and this being the case see it as "I am not good enough to get a better ring than the one he gave "that bitch," so he doesnt love me, he is cheap,
Shit give me a ring!!! I'll take it...It means u love me? Shit whatever...Lub u too!
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chicks are dumb, i'm very happily married. i've done the whole sha-bang already; and if your too busy being wrapped up on where the RING came from, size of stone(s), then you are putting the material aspect in front of the feelings/actions of your loved one. it was never intended to be given 2x and why would he have to spend 2x b/c he gave it to the wrong girl the first time?
thats just dumb. i bet you girls would be pissed if the stones were fake as well?
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actually sweetie....I wouldnt care if it were fake....
and how do you know it wasnt intended? how do you not know that you are giving your new girlfriend the ex's ring??
grand prix.....
chicks are dumb, i'm very happily married. i've done the whole sha-bang already; and if your too busy being wrapped up on where the RING came from, size of stone(s), then you are putting the material aspect in front of the feelings/actions of your loved one. it was never intended to be given 2x and why would he have to spend 2x b/c he gave it to the wrong girl the first time?
thats just dumb. i bet you girls would be pissed if the stones were fake as well?
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+1 b/c I agree...I have had this talk with so many of my friends it's ridiculous. He gave YOU a ring, who cares where it was before, that is an ego issue...Get over it...He wants to be with you, that is all that matters....
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I think he means that homeboy gave it to the first girl assuming he wouldn't have to re-give it to someone else(like never thought they would break up?)....I dunno, I think this is right?
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+25 thank you. women should be happy there is someone that wants to spend his every waking moment w/ you.... i would love to know the % of people in this topic who are or have been married? getting to that step is larger then any fucking ring or symbol of affection. its the words behind the action that the girl will remember forever...I dunno I think I agree with u...IMO, then again my view on relationships is a lil'
I can understand the girls getting upset b/c we (as females)*generalization* have a tendancy to compare ourselves to the ex's and this being the case see it as "I am not good enough to get a better ring than the one he gave "that bitch," so he doesnt love me, he is cheap,
Shit give me a ring!!! I'll take it...It means u love me? Shit whatever...Lub u too!
example: you ask my wife about her engagement... the RING will be the last thing she will tell you about. i bought her a build a bear wearing a wedding dress and when you squeeze it says "will you marry me (in my voice)" i did that so for the rest of her life she would know my feelings for her. the ring was nothing more then a symbol of our affection and a material effect for others to know she is spoken for. but every time she is asked "how did he propose..." she just lights up and tells the story.see thats what makes memories not a piece of over priced rock/metal
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I dunno I think I agree with u...IMO, then again my view on relationships is a lil'
I can understand the girls getting upset b/c we (as females)*generalization* have a tendancy to compare ourselves to the ex's and this being the case see it as "I am not good enough to get a better ring than the one he gave "that bitch," so he doesnt love me, he is cheap,
Shit give me a ring!!! I'll take it...It means u love me? Shit whatever...Lub u too!
VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY well said. Whats the point of even keeping the ring? If the love is no longer there then the ring should be either. But holding on to it could also mean that he is holding on to the past. Now I could be wrong but thats how I was brought up. Let things go and start a new! But some people just don't get it. Cheap, yes. Holding on to something thats not there anymore, retarded.
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I def see ur point, I was just stating my opinion, b/c I do not know the people in question, but I do know a very good friend of mine that bought a ring for his ex assuming she was the one for him. It was a promise, ring no big deal, but his girl cheated on him...After that he was so heart broken he kept the ring and decided that he was going to give it to the female that won his heart over....It wasn't about where the ring was, but where it ended that mattered...Once again, I do not know the full story of anybody on IA...I can only spk about my opinion...Thank you btw!
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It is not an engagement ring.. From what I understand it was jsut a ring given to her... nothing behind it... I know I would personally not want to have a ring that was intended for someone else.. Esp if it was an engagement ring... but this one is not, and never was from what i understand...
There are two diff debates going on in here I think.. One is ENGAGEMENT rings.. and the other is whatever else as long as it belonged to someone else at one point, lol... Engagement rings shouldnt be regifted at all.... At least I dont think so..
But something like that ring, (Which prob wasnt even $100 so there is no way to pawn it prob wont get shit for it) or other stupid gifts that you jsut cant throw away is the same as an idea that you had and doing it again with a new person.. regifting something stupid with not that much sentimental or dollar value is like taking someone to a restaurant that you took your ex to cuase you know its good cause you have been there before.
Personally I have stuff that I have done for my past relationships that are things no one has ever thought of, and I could very well do it in my current relationship to impress him that I am creative and care for him.. But i dont and I wont, cuase this is a new life with this person and I dont want it to be in any way similar to my past ones. So everything that I give now, Every Idea I come up with, is going to be a new inspiration and something I have never done or given to with another man other than the one I am with...
But what people do in their own relationships, I agree if it works for them and both people invloved are ok with it then thats really their business, lol
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Well, I do know them. But I am in no way trying to talk down about them. I'm stating my opinion as well. Its just how I see it, and how I yself have lived it. I held on to the past through materialistic items, not anymore. Its pointless. Now granted they were small things, this ring is something HUGE, sooooooo....I dunnno.
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FOR ALL YOU COMPLAINERS I HOPE YOUR MEN GIVE YOU THIS nuvaRING B/C I WOULD BE MORE WORRIED ABOUT KNOCKING UP YOU CHICKS THEN TAKING YOU HOME TO MOM
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