In all my life experience I have realized that there is only one thing that matters.. And that is your individual happiness. That said, If you are involved with someone be it best friend or lover and they get in the way of your search for happines than cut them off.
In the end, we are all alone. It is most important to stay true to yor own wants and neeeds and not worry about making anyone else happy..
I guess basically what I am trying to say is do whatever makes you happy..... If you do not want to be romantically involved with your best friend than dont, and If you want to date other people than do it.. Regardless of whos feelings you hurt along the way! compromising your self happiness so another can sleep at night is moronic! And if the roles were reversed would you get the same from the other?? probably not. Your best friend, if he had the chance would get with whomever he wants given the chance..
Im done
take ot from me.. a homosexual negro





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